Have you noticed this? Women who otherwise had a positive or neutral opinion of you, are now cold, distant and dislike you. I'm not talking about the usual shit talk your ex will have with her friends, those women are a foregone conclusion. I'm talking about women who know you and your family and who you would otherwise not expect to form a negatively biased opinion of you. Even relatives.

Given my circumstances, I am doing well in my court case. I have retained the marital home, while she got kicked out, I successfully fought off multiple sex abuse allegations involving my child, one domestic abuse allegation, and the female judge has already signaled her intention on awarding me more time (50/50 or more). That said, any bystander just looking at our situation would think, damn mom must have really f'ed up somewhere to be in this position, dad must be putting up a fight and proving his case...good for him! Except with these women, its more like how dare he not fall on his sword and let mom trample him in court. This must be a glitch in the system. The wife is supposed to come out on top by virtue of being a mom, who tf does the husband think he is!?

To those men who fight and are winning or won the war. Know that there are women in your life who's husbands are and were just as miserable as you were and that you represent a living example of defiance to the order imposed in these households. They don't hate you because they believe the bullshit your ex talked to them about - they hate you because you are a living, breathing threat to the marital contract that so tenuously holds their marriages together to their downtrodden husbands, lest they be inspired.