How long was her first relationship?

Dull_Description_710 · 2022-07-11T00:28:59+00:00

Why do you care bro? Move on. With respect, seriously. Don't let her affect you in any way. Keep your mind right. Fuck this bullshit.

braixel · 2022-07-10T21:05:26+00:00

I’m 100% on your side however I think it’s less of she’s moved on faster and more of she’s left the situation WAY before she mentioned it so it looks like she moved on but she was over it well before she brought it to your attention.

CRobinsFly · 2022-07-11T01:12:37+00:00

For me:

Rebound just became "official" a week ago but they'd started the initial process over a month ago.
I figured out by hearing him laughing on a video with my daugher from 3 weeks ago. Then, she informed me yesterday that she was officially in a new relationship a week ago.
The guy is shockingly inferior to me. Like in every way. He is working a deadend field job making 60k/yr, is divorced and has two children that he shares custody of. Ex apparently said his dick doesnt get hard enough to please her... wtf you dating him then?!? Guy's never owned a house. I mean, I guess he does look alright. He's her age, late 30s.
Yes, she introduced him to my 1yo daughter a week ago. I told her at the time I didnt feel that was appropriate and too soon.
When she informed me yesterday and told me about the guy, I literally laughed aloud and said "wow, you're really settling for a downgrade like that?!? shiiiiiit. This guy makes 1/3rd of what I do and 40% less than you! If you two get divorced, he's gonna rock your financial world!" She frowned. Today though I'm crushed, because I have really had to just accept that this is it, the true end to the ability to reconcile and I need to let go.

AirSailer · 2022-07-10T19:58:52+00:00

It's been proven that women are able to move past breakups faster than men are because men are more emotionally invested in relationships than women are AND men have less of a socially supportive safety net. Society likes to make it seem that women are the emotional gender when, on average, the opposite is true. Unfortunately that doesn't fit the feminist narrative.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-10161651/Breakups-painful-MEN-theyre-emotionally-invested.html

dday_throwaway3 · 2022-07-11T12:21:32+00:00

> the ex/STBX moved on to another guy pretty fast.

If a woman can fog a mirror, she can find another man.

> The questions I have for you are:

You shouldn't care. These questions clearly demonstrate you're allowing your ex to rent space in your head. It's time to evict her. You've got to get over your Oneitis. Your ex isn't one-in-a-million, she's one-of-a-million.

Basic_Advance7627 · 2022-07-11T00:21:24+00:00

Mine moved on way before divorce. Multiple affairs. Just had to find the right one to take her sorry tail

ThrowDaBalooney · 2022-07-14T14:57:21+00:00

My advice is who gives a shit. Delete her from your life. Work on yourself. Hire some hot escorts to fuck. Take a trip to South East Asia or Europe and go fuck some super hot chicks and have some of the best sex of your god damn life.

Also if you’re not in shape, get in shape and lift. Eat healthy and lift weights. I’m telling you this will make you feel better. It’s tough at first but once you start to see progress at the gym you will boost your self confidence as well.

CrazySanta7 · 2022-07-13T11:57:29+00:00

They don't move on faster, they just start the relationship with the other dude while still married to you.

recce22 · 2022-07-10T19:59:35+00:00

In most cases, it can be true that a woman can move on faster. For example, she has already made plans to be without you…. It was only a matter of time before the deed is carried out.

Then you have disordered individuals who never took the relationship seriously as it was never about you. They were only using you to validate or soothe their past traumas.

There are some good women out there, but most of them are more strategic then men are. IMHO - Women see relationships more deeply then men do…

James1933-75 · 2022-07-12T04:27:35+00:00

Deadbeat dad, unemployed, chain smoking, borderline alcoholic. Lives with his parents when he is not living in my house, while me and the children are technically homeless.

Title	How long was her first relationship?
Author	pussypounder1988_2
Upvotes	2
Comments	26
Date	July 10, 2022 7:49 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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