How to leave without a divorce.

Snoo_26212 · 2021-12-20T02:28:49+00:00

Could I just pull money out of the bank and eventually just dip out and never look back? How do I lose the least amount in a divorce? Do I accept a really low paying job, split, then take better one and not tell a soul?

holyshit_idkwigo · 2021-12-20T05:20:14+00:00

So this is super illegal and I am not sure if it will work.

Do cash advances on credit cards at casinos with your friends, run all your credit cards up, have your friends cash out the chips and they give you that money. You use your savings to pay off said credit cards. Make sure you being your spouse with you and send her on a shopping trip, so you can say she was there. This is money laundering and if caught you'll get fucked. But a friend of mine said he did thus to hide money from his wife when they were on the brink of divorce.

I recommend you do a divorce the regular way.

pegleg_legal · 2021-12-20T03:43:09+00:00

If you have kids, that will end up being criminal.

SwamiSweatSocks · 2021-12-20T02:42:11+00:00

I don't think that's what this sub is about. Split fairly, make sure you get 50/50 custody if you have kids and go on with your life. It's a pretty awful, unfair process, true. Courts get really angry if you try anything sneaky and it then goes very badly for you.

JohnnyMnemo · 2021-12-20T06:00:45+00:00

You leave everything behind--all of your assets, your kids, everything besides the clothes on your back.

Then go to a foreign country that they don't extradite from and rebuild your life from scratch. You're basically on the lam from the rest of your life, can't return to the country of your birth, and never see anything that you care about ever again.

It could be worth. I guess, depending on how horrific are your current circumstances.

Or you take your lumps and split half and be done.

The option B is that you attempt to convert all of your liquid assets to something untraceable and dip out with that, but depending on the amount will inform how hard she will look. If it's enough for you to care, it's enough for her to care. And then you need a friendly foreign government for the rest of your life, and you still are rebuilding your career from scratch.

The best answer that everyone in this sub learns is that the simplest answer is to simply never get married.

Title	How to leave without a divorce.
Author	Snoo_26212
Upvotes	8
Comments	12
Date	December 20, 2021 2:28 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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