I’m in my 40’s love my wife and believe she feels the same, we’ve invested and both work big corporate jobs and have a net worth of over 7 million dollars.

In the last 11 years my wife has not worked as we both felt it was best to take care of our one child.

I now have the opportunity to be over employed and make over 300k a year, but I’m not sure if I should…I read on this sub so many stories of payments based on salary in a divorce situation.

I’m happy to work harder to bring in the additional income but I don’t want it to ever be used against me. (The additional income 150k that is)

Is there an approach or a best practice that can give me the piece of mind? Am I a jerk for thinking this?