I have been married for 4 years with 2 kids (1 and 3). I'm halfway through my divorce.

A little backstory: She left to find herself/happiness (whatever that means). I found out that she went on a few dates (one with her ex), lied about it when I asked her, and was also on a half-dozen dating apps. She came back a couple of months later to "work things out", I asked her if she's still talking to any guys, said no. Found out that she's been lying, told her to go kick rocks.
I filed for divorce with 50/50 child custody.

Can anybody who got divorced from a short marriage with young kids share their experience, how are you doing now?

I'd love to hear your stories.