So, I have been seperated for over a year now, busy finalizing the divorce.

I have a big problem with my dick. Not joking. So when I go on dates and meet incredibly sexy women, everything goes well, I get to the bedroom with them, and I really want to have sex, they do too. I find them incredibly sexy. But my dick does not play along, and I can't get an erection.

So I get random erections and morning wood, so obviously have no ED problems.

I have taken cialis, and it still was the same, only with the cialis, I wake up the next morning or when I am away from them with a huge erection.

Also, if I slip up and sometimes have caved and had sex with my ex wife, I get a huge erection and have great sex no problem.

So my mind is now fucked up about it. Thinking I can't have sex with anybody but her.

How do I fix this?

Is it just that I aren't really arroused by these girls even though I think they are hot? Or is there a problem with me?