Although we have yet to file and even before we decided to divorce I started making changes I.e. diet, working out, looking for a better job. I've read how everyone suggests finding hobbies and filling your time up as much as possible. I'm trying to really get all my ducks in a row before everything happens and then I'm like, oh shit what do I do now? I decided to finally step out of my comfort zone and will be doing my first open mic night at a comedy club. I'm nervous and excited at the same time. What do I have to lose right? I've already lost my wife and our family. May as well have people laugh at my suffering while I'm at it.