Edit, thanks for all the comments. I talked to her today and asked for 2k from the savings account before it's split so that I at least had a counter offer and tried. She agreed to this (pissed off of course) but at least I tried and it worked. I will have to refurnish the house and this will help me make sure my kids have everything they need.

I posted on here before. Originally she thought she was going to steamroll me in this process after she filed. I put up a hell of a fight for my kids (2 boys, 2 and 4). Ended up agreeing to a parenting time schedule that I PROPOSED TO HER. Originally she basically wanted to be evil and hardly let me see the boys. From day 1 she says it's not about money. Funny how that's what it has all come down to here towards the end. We have court Tuesday the 15th. This is a check in with the judge to see how things are progressing. I told her I'm not doing the back and forth anymore and wasting money on attorney fees. I said we are going into court on the 15th with a signed agreement.

She thought originally she was going to get $1300 a month in child support. Now it's like $650-$700. I got her to agree to 8/14 nights and I get 6/14. As close as it can be to 50/50, but this schedule works well for me too. The big one is the house. I got an appraisal, It was a little lower than I expected. I have no intention to sell the house and full intention to pay her half of the equity. I plan on paying her this through a QDRO from my 401k. She also gets her marital half of that. So the equity she would get from the house is $11,500. I bumped it up to $15,000 to cover the tax and any fees for taking this money as cash after the rollover. Now she's saying she wants $20,000 for the house. I have the money in my 401k to do that, I just can't believe how greedy she is being. She thinks the house would sell for much more than the appraisal. I told her a million times if she doesn't agree with my appraisal then she needs to get her own and we will meet in the middle. She says her attorney advised her to not get an appraisal.

At this point I just want her out of the house so I can move on. Most of the furniture is hers, I've gotten a very nice sectional couch from my good friend and look forward to painting and changing things up to make it feel like my place. I feel that coming from where she started with her "offer" in mediation to where we are now with my Judgement of Divorce, I've gotten things way more in my favor than I could have imagined at the start.

My question to you guys, should I fight over this last 5k for the house? I am 29 and have a long time to build my 401k back to where it is currently. Using my 401k for this doesn't effect my current financial situation, other than splitting our savings as well. Fortunately I have a good job, I get a nice bonus around March and I will cushion my savings when that time comes. Like I said at this point I feel like I've been able to sway many things in my favor, feels like I'm rambling at this point. I just want to move on and hope if we have a signed agreement going into court Tuesday that the judge will expedite this process.