She told me she is going to have our kids spend the night at her mom's the day she moves out so they don't have to see all her furniture be removed from what is my house. Then she says "I would really like if you could leave for a few hours while we move my stuff out so I can just be at peace during the process". I told her she's never asked something of me that has made me more uncomfortable than that in our entire relationship. I reminded her who's house this is now and that I will be here when there are people taking things from my house. She of course acts baffled that I'd think she is up to no good or that someone would try stealing anything of mine. I also don't want the walls banged up by moving these large pieces of furniture out.

Am I overreacting to this or do any of you agree that I should be watching her like a hawk? Had she said "so and so is going to help me move out next weekend" I would not have even questioned it, but the way she chose to bring it up is like the most suspicious way she could have gone about it.