I got divorced two months ago, and I’m still deeply in love with her. We have a 4-year-old son together. She says she made her decision over eight months ago because she doesn’t feel our relationship was loving, and that we weren’t really a couple—just two roommates.

 

I went through a difficult period and was somewhat absent towards her. She didn’t want to try again and says she had already given me a chance when we were close to divorcing last year, but she wanted to give it one last shot. Now, she has moved on, finalized the divorce, and is clearly moving forward with her life.

 

We were together for over 10 years and live in Europe. I, on the other hand, feel completely lost and deeply depressed. I’d love to hear from those who have been through something similar and managed to get to the other side—how do you heal and let go?

 

I feel like I’m trapped in a nightmare I can’t wake up from, but unfortunately, this is my reality. How do I help myself and my son in this new and unknown situation? I want to make sure my son is affected as little as possible by all of this.

 

My ex-wife and I communicate well about our son and stick to our agreements. I will have him five times every 14 days, including overnight stays.

 

I’m just incredibly sad and feel utterly broken. How do I move on?

 

Sorry for my english its my 4 language its not my best one