My son had play therapy and the therapist got two different stories from my ex and I. This divorce is still very fresh and my wife cheated and shoved the new guy in my face. As a result i have very hard boundaries around as little contact with her as possible. Therapist kept mentioning how my son sees those boundaries and it hurts him. The ex was all to glad to say we need less boundaries and should communicate often or even do joint events like nothing is wrong. Am i in the wrong when i (politely of course) told them to fuck off? I didn’t curse or anything but made it clear under no circumstances did i want to be near someone who was constantly on the attack. I’ll parallel parent and answer messages within the 24 to 48 hour window , I’ll answer phone calls that are actually emergencies but i get to decide what is an emergency and not my ex wife. Is this unreasonable? I make no digs at my ex , i dont bad mouth her etc.