PreNup

BadDad01234 · 2019-10-15T00:16:34+00:00

I'll never marry again. Period

But for those that do, I'd say as other guy said she must make as much or more than me for not to consider it.

If she doesn't, then prenup all the way. Lawyers must be involved to end a marriage so doesn't make sense they wouldn't be involved to start one. At least that's the defense I'd say

i_need_a_username201 · 2019-10-15T01:23:03+00:00

Nope. I say this as I'm watching a boatload of cash walk out the door. Team PRENUP

Bertieland · 2019-10-15T06:44:56+00:00

I am considering to get marry again after years from my divorce. I will go for prenup, for my sakes and hers.

Algedonic_Zeit · 2019-10-15T00:16:22+00:00

As long as she makes more money than me, sure. I don’t need or want her money. I make damn good money. Like seriously damn good money.

Kwen_Oellogg · 2019-10-15T05:46:06+00:00

I would rather put a sharp stick in my eye than ever get married again.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2019-10-15T12:21:58+00:00

Never. I don't need the government or law in my relationships. A marriage is just a relationship with expensive lawyers involved. I'll forego the lawyer fees, thank you.

Prenups aren't that safe.

I'm fully financially independent, so I don't need a wife as a business partner. I'm emotionally independent, driven, and worked myself up from poverty, so I don't need a wife as a cheerleader to keep me motivated. I have a career, a solid side business, beautiful kids, a positive net worth, several real estate properties, and am working my butt off to leave my children with a better life. Even with a prenup and a solid defense, legal fees are crippling, so you lose either way.

There's just too much on the line to risk (my kids' well being, most of all), and marriage offers me nothing in return at this point in my life.

hustlors · 2019-10-19T22:23:28+00:00

I got married with a pre nup. It didnt help all that much. Everyone will tell your wife the pre nup might not be valid and to challenge it. It will likely hold up in court but it will cost thousands in lawyers fees to get there. Best thing is just dont get legally married.

postalmaner · 2019-10-15T02:16:38+00:00

If it covers child custody and access. That's where I spent the better part of 100k in legal fees. Otherwise don't marry / date / screw someone without a career and their own money.

Ebon13 · 2019-10-15T10:35:20+00:00

Marriage agian? Nope. There is seriously no benefit in it for men in this day and age. Family court laws are usually biased towards women.

As for a pre-nup, it depends. They are no longer the iron clad documents they used to be. They can be overruled by a judge depending on several factors, like children being added to the mix. Check your state's laws to see what could result in a overruling.

croyab · 2019-10-16T01:24:19+00:00

I somewhat doubt that I will ever get married again at all, as much as it hurts to say so. No way without a prenup. If one spouse up and decides to stop working because leisure is more fun, they still have a claim to half of what you earn (in my state). Every couple I know where one spouse shifts down during the marriage to enjoy more leisure, it's the husband who keeps the nose to the grindstone. I'm not talking about reducing hours to raise children, which is a legitimate reason for the wife to work less or not at all, if both spouses agree. I am sure there are marriages where it's the husband who lack work ethic too, I just don't know any couples like that.

Fin4llyBre4thing · 2019-10-15T10:49:41+00:00

No, I would not remarry without a prenup but an intranup would be better. If I have a house, then she better have one too (that I like). One house can be kept on the side and rented out, then asset splits at the end won't matter, you just go back to your premarried state. If you have a plan during the relationship then you'll also have the frame of mind that you can walk away from it which ironically will make you more attractive in the marriage.

Title	PreNup
Author	sweeperrh
Upvotes	10
Comments	21
Date	October 15, 2019 12:04 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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