I am going thru my divorce and it's been 14 months. Since she left.

I learned alot of things and although things vary as each divorce is different and there are many variables . There are alot of learnings and lessons. Emotional , Financially etc.

To you guys also going thru it..lets help the newbie guys starting this journey..please share you most important lesson learned or what you wish you new.

This is not to be considered legal advice but more to help highlight things that you may have deal with.

Let's start with this statement..I learned....

I will go first..

I learned that if you are employed and have been awarded vested stocks..they have to be appraised by a actuary as part of your financial disclosure..