So found out my wife had been cheating on me about 3 weeks ago. We’ve decided separation/ divorce is going to happen.

Now we’re in the limbo period of knowing we’re divorcing but having to figure out the logistics of everything. I.E. selling the house, telling the kids, dividing everything up, mediation, etc.

We are amicable, don’t fight, still talk, etc. Sleep in separate rooms. And I’m trying to keep as much peace as possible until the ink is dry.

Anybody else go thru this? It’s a weird spot to be in. I know some of you have found out and took immediate action, but I feel like this is going to take awhile.

Thanks as always.