I have been in relationship after relationship.i have been the provider and i have also been the man that made way less then my women who was the bread winner.none of these relationships worked.i been on dating apps i have seen things women say they want on social media and im just fed up with it all lies.i see women who are “independent” claim they just want a man they can be “ feminine” with because they are “tired of just surviving” basically saying they are ready too be a “real women “let a man lead as long as he can provide and then she will finally be happy.but when i look at this group and my own experiences that is not the case! How many of you men in here did everything they claim they need in order too be a good gf or wife ? You provided for them.You purchased the home.you got them the cars.you got them the trips.you gave them the family.shit sometimes they get distant mid relationship and you ask whats wrong they tell you the problem and you tried to fix them too make her happy and guess what ? Shes still being distant and bitch too you.what did that bring you in the end ? Divorced ,cheated on ,less sex ,goal post ,everything is your fault,kids taken away and shes the victim.if it wasn’t for social media.i would of thought all of this was just my own experience and not something thats happening too many men of different ages and different backgrounds.when they are the bread winners they claim they just need a man and their life is complete,yet they leave men all the time in these situations too.even if he was a good dude and just didn’t have the money she had.i say all that too say this.i don’t think we win as men wether we are broke or successful and divorce is just the inevitable.