Long story short wife had an affair while we were stationed overseas I’m still here she moved back with the kids, she’s still talking to the guy she had an affair with and wants a divorce. We were great for 7 years and then all went to shit in 1 year. I am going to be headed back there in a few weeks and we are going to have to live with each other for a few months. We have 4 kids and my whole world revolves around my family. I am blessed to have a supportive family but I can’t stop thinking about my children and the now broken home. I know her replacing me is not about me but about her insecurities and stuff but it still kills me as I sit here and compare myself to that shitbag and just worry about my kids. I just feel like breaking down someday and wanting to fight for her back but know I shouldn’t and can’t. Don’t need tough love just need some support today so please be easy on me. Thanks everyone. I hope we all get through these tough times