Been going through the ringer for the past year and a half, went from trying, unsuccessfully, for 10 months to start a family with my wife to her telling me she had feelings for one of her coworkers and finally finding out that she had started sleeping with him. Finally hit the point where I'm done. I am starting to look into how I can get a divorce and have no idea where to start. So far I have started looking for places to live, scheduled a meeting with my financial advisor, and sent an email to our local county clerks office looking for information. What else can I be doing?