“It’s literally every man.”

NonbinaryYolo · 2024-11-19T21:19:16+00:00

This is mostly projection. Women in general are the ones with an in-group bias. Calling each other out is literally apart of men's culture.

GNSGNY · 2024-11-19T21:42:12+00:00

"the predatory men in your life" WHO????????

Fuzzy_Department2799 · 2024-11-19T21:05:08+00:00

It always amazes me how they think we keep creeps and predators in our lives. Like oh that guy? Thats Joe. He likes to like to leer at women and make inappropriate comments but he is a really great guy. Its asinine.

Ill-Association-8410 · 2024-11-19T22:48:56+00:00

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ChaemiR8 · 2024-11-19T21:23:06+00:00

I love how it's assume that "no" it's our answer to that question

God-Emperor_773 · 2024-11-19T21:21:51+00:00

No I’m not because I surround myself with good people lmao

AigisxLabrys · 2024-11-19T22:41:30+00:00

Appeal to emotion.

In feministspeak, apologist means “anyone who does not immediately go murder the man they accuse without evidence.”

Yes, we need evidence. If I told you I have 20 lbs of gold, wouldn’t you ask for evidence.

They do more than alienate.

There are no predatory men in my life.

I will always be part of the problem according to you people.

KingCandy108 · 2024-11-19T21:20:31+00:00

Some need non-existent “evidence” to believe survivor.

Innocent until proven guilty is foundation for any functional system of justice, anyone who takes issue with that cannot be trusted to pass judgement on others

Sky-kunn · 2024-11-19T23:06:58+00:00

If all men are either predators, enablers, or don't care, then no man will actually be 'holding predatory men accountable' because they would themselves be either a predator or an enabler. Therefore, by the image's own logic, all men are automatically 'part of the problem.'

You know what's sad? There are men who will agree with all these bullet points except the last one, because they think they're the 'exception', the ones who care. It's sad that some people believe men don't report abuse towards women... that men don't dedicate their lives to helping women. There are countless men working as counselors, advocates, law enforcement officers, social workers, educators, and activists who actively fight against abuse every single day. But according to this logic, they must either be predators or enablers themselves, which is absurd and dismisses the real work being done by men who genuinely care.

The ultimate effect of this rhetoric is to distance potential allies - people who might want to help but are pushed away when told they're automatically part of the problem simply because of their gender at birth, and that they must somehow prove they're different from all other men.

New-Distribution6033 · 2024-11-19T23:50:03+00:00

Since mothers kill infants in much higher numbers than men, wouldn't the meme also work for women and infanticide?

Kraskter · 2024-11-19T23:00:24+00:00

Honestly fucking moronic. Yeah, so? Most men unshockingly are not aware of their friends, if they are predatory, being predatory. If you tell them with no evidence, not even just another eye witness, no shit they won’t believe a stranger over their friend immediately, 99% of people wouldn’t either, the people who say this shit wouldn’t if one of their girlfriends were accused by a guy. Is that because they hate male victims or find rape fine? If so they defeat their own point and if not, they also do. It’s really not that difficult to debunk most of these people.

Sick-of-you-tbh · 2024-11-20T00:09:40+00:00

Men are objectively doing more to stop these predators than any woman.

A_Learning_Muslim · 2024-11-20T05:48:19+00:00

do these misandrists ever hold female false accusers accountable? no, they rather justify them.

MarionberryPrimary50 · 2024-11-20T10:18:22+00:00

I love how these feminists think that men celebrate and defend rapists and blame women who are raped

delusion is one hell of a drug

BaroloBaron · 2024-11-20T12:37:23+00:00

I find it particularly worrying that whoever designed this slide thinks that the burden of proof should be lifted from the accuser.

AbysmalDescent · 2024-11-21T19:41:56+00:00

It's funny how men are labelled enables when they call out misandry and negative stereotyping, while women never see themselves as enablers or apologists when they not only romanticize predatory men, often over good men, but also often even setup their entire dating strategy in a way so that predatory men succeed.

The reality is, however, that most men are not only already being held accountable but they are often even shamed or presented as far worse than they are for having basic human emotions towards women. Men are held to entirely different standards than women are, and not only are men more likely to be presented as predators when they are not but women who are predators are also far less likely to be recognized or called out as predators as well.

DemoniteBL · 2024-11-20T08:50:12+00:00

So I assume they do? My advice is to not associate with sexual predators.

moldovan0731 · 2024-11-21T04:13:07+00:00

The third point is saying the quiet part out loud

MediumWin8277 · 2024-12-02T16:05:43+00:00

This post contains a contradiction.

If you say that all of the men have these qualities, then how are you leaving room for the ones who stand up to predatory men to be different?

MaximumTangerine5662 · 2024-11-20T04:19:52+00:00

How are you to always know though? it's ridiculous to say you should know when someone is a predator yet many people excuse victims not speaking up, and kind in return tell them to be silent. A lot of women don't get that it's not men who need this kind of talk, it's the woman who need to be told that - it's the women who need to be held responsible.

ChargeProper · 2024-11-20T17:55:21+00:00

I wonder if she is actively holding women accountable for dating bad boy abusers, or if she even hold herself accountable for any of what she is talking about.

MajesticGarlic999 · 2024-11-20T19:10:18+00:00

Rapists don't survive too long in a men's prison.

TheOneAndOnlyABSR4 · 2024-11-26T20:23:16+00:00

I think I know this account. Fuck patriarchy.

I like to go on there and laugh.

ONETEEHENNY · 2024-11-19T21:42:17+00:00

The comments are weird on this post

Title	“It’s literally every man.”
Author	meeralakshmi
Upvotes	228
Comments	81
Date	November 19, 2024 8:53 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/EverydayMisandry
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/everydaymisandry/comments/1gv7np8/its_literally_every_man/
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