How do I break my misogyny?

RedPillDetox · 2021-09-17T08:53:32+00:00

FDS is just a cult of frustrated women complaining and brainwashing other women to be bitter like them. Don't judge women based on a particular group. You wouldn't judge people's intelligence and claim that most people are stupid based on reading anti-vaxxers subs or flat earther subs, so why would you judge the entirity of women moral fiber based on a random sub of stupid women?

cunningcaring · 2021-09-17T10:47:45+00:00

FDS is not most women. Don't read that crap.

NotinRedpillBubble · 2021-09-18T11:12:51+00:00

Just realize the obvious, there are just As many horrible men who think cheating should be seen as way less bad of even acceptable when they do it, men who manipulate women and even abuse their own girlfriends. Both genders are awful, only picking on women as some of these YouTuber do will of course make you think it’s just Women. But it’s not. I’ve seen posts where men literally infected their wives with STDs Bc they had unprotected sex with a sex worker and still managed to blame the wife for it or were more worried about getting caught than harming the health of the wife….and I still am sure that the vast majority of men aren’t like that.

vcreativ · 2021-09-17T09:58:30+00:00

Already mentioned, but stop looking at FDS. There's nothing of value there.

It's not as simple as saying that these women don't exist. It's just that they're nowhere near as common as you think. So you want to be aware without turning hyper-vigilant.

Go outside and spend time with real people having no intention of "finding a date". Not everything is dandy in the real world either, but it's certainly an awful lot less of a doomscroll out here.

PhilosopherHistorian · 2021-09-17T08:23:09+00:00

The behaviors expressed in the FDS are truly disgusting at best but you have to remember that all it is is an echo chamber of extremist women who happen to have toxic traits. You have to remember that not every woman in the world (certainly not even most) participate in that sub.

It’s kind of like how incel/RP subs have tons of men spewing misogynistic nonsense but you and I both know damn well that not all men are like that.

I suggest you stop lurking in FDS altogether. It’s not good for your mental health and I’m sure you probably have better things to do with your time anyway. Try and form a platonic relationship with a woman (Not one who participates in FDS obviously), it will help with detox tremendously.

Best of luck on your journey!

LadylikeElectricland · 2021-09-17T10:45:43+00:00

Here's a good post just for you: https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/pp7311/you_want_to_leave_trp_behind_dont_become_bino/

impressablenomad38 · 2021-09-17T16:21:44+00:00

Looking at fds has the same effect on men that looking at RP content has on women. It makes you filled with hate.

I get it. Coming from a female perspective when I looked at mgtow/rp content it made me more bigoted towards men.

My advice: Learn the methods they use and avoid women that use those tactics.

That's what I did, and whenever I recognised the PUA shit (it's extremely creepy irl and not at all attractive) I would call them out on what they were doing and tell them to fuck off.

Let me know if this helped

atman714 · 2021-09-17T18:36:16+00:00

You wouldn't want women judging all of men based of TRP, right? So it's probably not a good idea to judge women off shitty subs like FDS.

JUMPsuperstar · 2021-09-18T02:51:20+00:00

Don't read FDS. Just like consuming red pill content, don't consume it.

Brilliant_Usual_743 · 2021-09-20T19:40:40+00:00

FDS is out there as a messed up tool to turn genuine hurt (following a breakup/multiple breakups with unwisely chosen partners) in anger, which is psychologically easier on us as people to deal with. Same with the communities of men who gather around saying women are evil, selfish, manipulative etc. It's all am attempt to escape genuine self evaluation.

"Why did I choose abusive partners?" "Why am I afraid of sincere committment?" "Why do I run away when my date seems emotionally available?"

Most of these questions are answered looking and family dynamics growing up. People sometimes think it's free will when it comes to choosing a partner, which becomes so only after healing the trauma our parents/lack of parents caused us when they were themselves deeply traumatized, hurt people. If you've been really hurt, you will seek further hurt because that's familiar and the world/a whole community becomes hurtful.

xcheshirecatxx · 2021-10-03T22:54:53+00:00

There is red pill women. I'm myself a purple pill woman. I'm a mra, intactivist woman who was raped and abused by some men.

Just like I didn't put my issues on every male, you have to remember that women aren't all FDS, aren't all feminists

impressablenomad38 · 2021-09-17T12:23:59+00:00

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Title	How do I break my misogyny?
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Date	September 17, 2021 6:28 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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