Why is male virginity rising?

RedPillDetox · 2021-09-06T05:29:33+00:00

I don't have any evidence to back this up, I'm just throwing ideas out there:

The internet. Young people probably don't know how to socialize in person anymore. Social anxiety is on the rise, from what I can tell.
Younger generations are waiting longer to have sex, compared to previous generations. They get married later in life. They also drink less alcohol, or so I'm told.
Porn and porn addictions.
metoo movement and women being aware/afraid of shitty men.
If women get sexually assaulted more often than men, well then keep in mind that not all women gave up their virginity with consent.
Young people living with their parents longer.
Helicopter parents.

PollaTronante · 2021-09-06T03:04:59+00:00

Can you provide data on how much it's risen by and since when it's been rising? As well as data that female virginity is not doing the same thing?

working-people-guy · 2021-09-06T03:01:33+00:00

So what's your opinion on this thing?

DriveSufficient2796 · 2021-09-06T16:54:11+00:00

This could be the female response to single motherhood. Especially all the stigma certain male communities placed on women being valuable until she becomes a ‘single’ mother. That once she becomes a parent her value goes down and to never marry single mothers just fornicate with them.

Additional-Sport-836 · 2021-09-06T19:00:04+00:00

I blame video games!

vcreativ · 2021-09-07T20:53:36+00:00

You mean during a global pandemic? I think it's mostly logistics.

Kr7731 · 2021-09-06T09:10:15+00:00

Is women's virginity rising too, if not then it sort of proves the 80/20 thing.

TheUberDoomer · 2021-09-06T03:33:18+00:00

I'm a virgin, so definitely adding to that statistic.

HardenedRod · 2021-09-06T12:46:02+00:00

A part of me really wants to call out the mainstream rise of homosexuality and especially how somehow it's almost encouraged for young women to "experiment". Lack of women due to them pairing off internally=lack of available partners for men. Am I wrong to believe it?

Venustarr_777 · 2021-09-06T17:12:01+00:00

Nothing wrong with being a virgin.

Inf3rn0_exile · 2021-09-06T19:17:12+00:00

Male virginity is rising in comparison to women because women aren't willing to settle for sub standard men anymore. Their standards for casual sex are alot higher than their standards for LTRs. And there aren't alot of top tier men to go about. Women don't find most men attractive. Every country is becoming progressive these days, women are vocal about what they want and unapologetic. You'll notice that even in Eastern countries most men are virgins at the age of 25 whereas women have had 3-4 partners on average. Not counting casual flings. Only a small percentage of top tier men are having sex.

OhDatBoi1273 · 2021-09-06T19:51:41+00:00

Is it rising or is it a perception, your blank question begs for more questions

BiWomanHealing · 2021-09-06T20:52:48+00:00

Pornography addiction is the #1 culprit in my opinion. It increases the degree to which men have poor social skills and messed up behavior and attitudes towards women.

Also, other forms of media dependency in the digital age. People are indoors on computers and tv's a lot now. Church other places traditionally popular for meeting mates has dwindled in popularity.

Also, I would name the economic situation as a big factor. Women and men have to work full time to make ends meet. Few people make a truly living wage anymore. Houses, education and cars are unaffordable.

Another woman in the thread raised an excellent point that as a woman, I do not want to become pregnant unless the man is my husband or planning to stick around. Just having sex for pleasure is extremely risky for women socially, safety wise, financially and etc.

Bluetinfoilhat · 2021-09-24T21:35:07+00:00

Most men are not even pretending to be looking for long term relationships and that typically is where men get sex. A lot of men who are virgins are not necessarily being rejected for relationships-- they are being rejected for hook-ups.

What I mean is that men in the past would get in relationships in exchange for sex, but some men would rather go "monk" than do that. Plus you have dating advice that tells men they are "simps" for planning and paying for dates. So a lot of women who would date and have sex with them-- jump ship once they realize he isn't gonna put any effort.

And a lot of men don't care since they have porn, video games, and other hobbies to preoccupy themselves.

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Negative_Reality_152 · 2021-09-06T09:13:22+00:00

80% of the women go for the top quality men ; the smartest,richest and sociable guys. These guys have sex with multiple women (even at the same time) because they are considered high value by women,they dont care that their man has side chicks and stuff like that. The other men have difficulty meeting up the high standards set by women these days and remain virgin.

Title	Why is male virginity rising?
Author	Electronic-Ad2534
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Date	September 6, 2021 2:46 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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