This is the single biggest step you can make to get your life back.
When I was younger, women always seemed so mysterious and so aloof. I didn't understand them one bit.

I've dated a lot in the last few years and used to have very open conversations with the women I spent time with. I finally realized that they all got their own life, their own problems, and their struggles. Many female humans are good people. Life is difficult and they are trying their best to live theirs. They want to do the right thing and sometimes circumstances get in the way.

I am not saying that you should tolerate behavior that is damaging to you or others. What I am saying is that there is often an explanation for this behavior that is rooted in insecurities or trauma.

Once you become more compassionate about the problems women face, you will realize that it's so much easier to be with them or attract them.