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Spotted both a 6’2ish hot “Chad” and a model-looking “Stacey” at my gym just now…

Equivalent-Cat5414 · 2024-06-20T00:48:38+00:00

…and I didn't see anyone approach either one of them! I didn't approach that “Chad” mostly because I think he's too tall and too young for...

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June 20, 2024

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Title	Spotted both a 6’2ish hot “Chad” and a model-looking “Stacey” at my gym just now…
Author	Equivalent-Cat5414
Upvotes	0
Comments	44
Date	June 20, 2024 12:48 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/1djyyg8/spotted_both_a_62ish_hot_chad_and_a_modellooking/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/ExRedPill/spotted-both-a-62ish-hot-chad-and-a-model-looking.1522084 https://theredarchive.com/post/1522084

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You’re delusional with your little buckets and ‘straight men want this, straight women want that’ bullshitting. Everybody wants what they want. Some of the value of being checked out should track even if it’s not someone you want to be with who is checking you out it’s a validation.

It just makes you a real jerk to the literal millions of women who are struggling to get a date. Could they get some nasty greasy man they aren’t attracted to to fuck them? Yeah, but so could you.

You’re in here doing this line all the time, mostly you just come off as not appreciating the self-described experiences of other people because you’re so fixated on your ‘reality’ which is based in redpill noise.

Your whole ‘most women don’t find most men attractive?’ 100% a reflection of women having better social skills and discretion. All sorts of norms about women not being allowed their sexuality, treating it as danger. What if instead of doing this all the time you went ahead and discovered second wave feminism? You really don’t see the redpill in all of this competitive/comparative stuff you do here? The men don’t have to have it worse than the women. You’ve got it bad, but so do so many women. Haven’t you ever heard that while men are afraid women will laugh at them women are afraid men will kill them? Nah, just complain more about how ‘easy’ dating is for women and how ‘hard’ for men because it’s been a rough go of it for you personally and you don’t know any women who will talk about romantic struggles around you.

[+]W-Pilled -2 points-1 points0 points 2 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

Do you honestly believe women struggle just as much to get a date as the average man does? Even when we have studies to disprove that? If so, you need to leave that rock you're living under.

Make a tinder. A woman can get hundreds of matches and I guarantee one will be a good date. This isnt the case for men. Even fat women have more sex than fat men. I can provide that study if you want.

Of course women are allowed to date whom they want. They aren't exactly lacking in options.

Men and women are different. Our brain waves are different. Our experiences are different. You don't exactly know what it's like to not have anyone attracted to you and I don't know what it's like to have a period. That's nature.

Women aren't dying in the streets. Go outside and you'll see them living and thriving. You don't lack rights. You have the same opportunities as me and other men

[–]Allusionator 10 points11 points12 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Did you just assume my gender, bro? No menses here.

I don’t want to play ‘which gender has it harder’ because it’s a misleading oversimplification. You must have at least heard of the concept of intersectionality? Whatever identity you have there will be parts that are nice and parts that suck. Different combinations unlock unique experiences, like with race/body type/age/etc combinations with gender.

What if, instead of where you’re at with this stuff… What if some ‘people’ (notice, not even gendered) struggle with dating, and that’s a hard experience for them? That’s the ‘reality’, it is personal to each individual struggling in their romantic life and could be a place for solidarity. All of the statistically typical AND uncommon or even unique suffering counts just the same for each person experiencing it.

What you do on these threads is play for your ‘team’ in a gender war this sub is against. You troll women into sharing their pain/frustration with men and dating by incessantly invalidating their experiences. Can you not at least see how men sharing pain/frustration are better off with validation/commiseration rather than invalidation by some statistic?

OP said they saw some people in public and didn’t observe RP dynamics happening. It’s an odd post, but it’s personal and sincere to their process of recovering from misogynist brain rot that snuck in on YouTube or elsewhere.

What is going on that you have so much gender wars statistics ready to go? Is it really better than finding some ‘dang, it’s hard out there for some of us and not every ‘pretty’ person is always getting adoration or special attention for it,’ consensus? It’s been some time, are you sure you don’t want to find something less miserable to study than continuing in gender wars?

The situation of every single individual is relevant and doesn’t need to be reduced to shorthand like gender. Gender is one of a set of traits that provides major direction in a person’s life in that it influences how the world reacts to them. It is a major component of self-identity, especially for people who are socially sensitive and fall for propaganda about how to act in a gendered way. You’re in here often dunking on less studied gender wars combatants who are sort of annoyed that you’re posting redpilled lines of thought on an anti-redpill sub. Go dunk on people in a better subject that’s less antisocial.

We are all living 1/1 lives where we will have some stereotypical experiences and some highly atypical ones. ‘Averageman’ doesn’t exist. You and I do, as do the other people commenting on the sub. I know some women who 100% cannot get a solid thing going no matter how much they try. It’s obnoxious of you to pop off about gender wars stats because a post describing an interaction goes against what you think is most probable based on the one data point of gender…

I don’t know, that’s all I’ve got. You’re sort of a troll here so I don’t feel super bad not editing it. Maybe you’re not in the redpill anymore, but you’ve got the gender wars ick pretty bad. You’ve gotta do the work to push back against letting gendered probabilities mess with you. It’s classic us/them dichotomizing that you read my comments and mistook me for a woman. Gender is just one thing, it is not the social/cognitive nexus of divergence in human experience that the gender wars paint it to be. If you think of five things about you/your identity/life you’ll probably find some were statistically highly unlikely and others highly likely. Have I turned you away from gender wars even the slightest? I just know that gendered expectations have fucked with the heads of many of the people on this sub and have been seeing your troll-ish comments for (weeks?) in a way that makes me assume this isn’t even your first/only account and that you’ve held these ideas about how ‘hard’ it is for men and how ‘easy’ it is for women for a long time. I can only assume that means it’s been very hard for you, but the rest of it for others is up to their individual lives and your statistics mean next to nothing in our actual lived lives. It’s a trick of redpill because, with rare exceptions to the best and worst lives, we all have mixed up good and bad experiences over a normal distribution. There is no objective measure for quality of life experiences, in huge parts the deciding factor of a good or bad life is the fit between the personality of the person and their environment. Further, we are made happy or sad in part by how we consider ourselves and others. While gender is the social flavor on our experience, redpill drags people down the path of gender wars as a proxy for their personal frustrations. We most all have struggles, we most all have gifts, we most all do not tick the ‘averageman’ boxes and have a range of typical to atypical experiences relative to your gendered life expectations.

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