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this subreddit is promoting female abusers and silencing male victims

Black_N_Proud

June 15, 2022

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Title	this subreddit is promoting female abusers and silencing male victims
Author	Black_N_Proud
Upvotes	0
Comments	38
Date	June 15, 2022 5:21 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/vcznsg/this_subreddit_is_promoting_female_abusers_and/
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[–]MelodiousTones[🍰] 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (27 children) | Copy Link

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[–]theStaberinde -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like he is upset he can't go rape everyone he sees.

I understand the temptation to interpret frustrations like those expressed by OP in this way – and yeah, considering that he has a dim view of messaging about men needing to "have control [over themselves]", I'm sure he has some pretty rough ideas about consent – but I do not think that this is a constructive accusation to level at someone whose worldview is filtered through the belief that women as a class are working to unfairly demonise men.

e. We shouldn't "respect" what OP is saying. But we should ask what we are producing when we suggest that men who express this kind of resentment do so because of a basic underlying desire to engage in sexual violence – especially given how strong the theme of false rape accusations is in this belief system.

It's not necessarily a wrong interpretation of what he's expressing, but there are other ways to engage and criticise that don't risk reinforcing his existing ideas about how men are perceived and treated.

[–]creamerfam5 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–]creamerfam5 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I guess it's just frustrating that people like me get abused and pushed down by the current system. Not taken seriously in the workforce, generally seen as less then men in anyway that counts for a thriving life, the one who has to assume much of the risk when having this free sex that is apparently all around me, and this guy wants to complain about how the perception that I can have sex whenever/wherever/with whoever I want (which, really? no, I can't, I would still need their consent) puts me in the privileged class over him (BWAHAHAHA).

Meanwhile assholes with general contempt for women like Depp are lauded as men's right's activists because they have more money than Elon with which to counter sue their girlfriends for abuse. Oh, yeah, that one case out of the past mellenia of women being treated as property really shows how unfair men have it now.

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[–]theStaberinde 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't expect you (or anyone else) to sit down and take the time to digest this article in full, but it's relevant, and I hope you'll at least skim it.

Basic gist: feminism provides some useful tools for interrogating gendered (and/or sexual) violence in male prisons and articulating the how and why of it's a particularly vicious problem – and also what society might do to remedy and overcome it.

The prison dominance hierarchy shapes gender relationships, and does so in a way that causes damage to all prisoners. The pain and suffering of prisoners is worth considering in its own right: the anguish of the man who has to fight to prove he is manly; the dread men feel lest they be raped; the humiliation experienced by women who are trained in subservience; the shame and petrification of the men and women who are raped; the psychological pain of the youth facing gladiator fights on the adult prison yard or the mortification of solitary confinement. All of these forms of pain and suffering are horrific. Most result from prison conditions, policies and practices that are unconstitutional, and all of these dreadful aspects of prisonization must be ended or reversed.

This is a feminist perspective. It probably does not resemble the image of feminism that has been made available to you so far by people who seek to capitalise on the sense of helplessness experienced by guys like you. This material is out there and you can benefit from it.

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