Am I overreacting to this message?

Radiant_Success · 2020-03-17T17:18:05+00:00

😂😂😂he's not even PRETENDING to be charming, romantic, or mentally stable.

IloveKoreanfoodyaaas · 2020-03-17T17:27:13+00:00

Let's say for argument wake, he isn't being rude, if something bothers you, you don't need to justify your feelings. Just walk.

Men love to get you wasting time on if your feelings are valid or not. Stop.

You got a bad feeling. Respect that feeling.

If you think you have an underlying issue that's making you jump to conclusions ok work on that. But in this case, I would also be turned off by a dude speaking like this. I would think "does he talk this way at work?" Ect.

I amost always speak properly, with a few minor spelling or grammar issues as possible. I only use slang if I'm really joking around or I'm talking with close friends. It's normal to expect respect when making a date.

miz_nyc · 2020-03-17T17:55:55+00:00

Working at JP Morgan means nothing, there are all sorts of LVM who work in upscale white collar jobs, I know because I worked at several white collar firms in NYC.

glittersparklesglitz · 2020-03-17T17:10:45+00:00

Block. Delete. Next!!!

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2020-03-17T17:14:56+00:00

I’d ghost. That’s too low effort

shade_of_ara · 2020-03-17T17:23:10+00:00

Watch out for when people ask questions that way, implying that there's definitely a right answer as opposed to genuinely trying to confirm something they have reason to think is true. Huge yellow flag for coercive and entitled behavior.

Unless you had previous dates at 7, even that small assumption is pretty sketchy. He should be asking if that works for you, or what works for you. A guy who does what he did is setting you up to habitually agree with his decisions.

vp2407 · 2020-03-17T22:26:21+00:00

I ghosted a guy simply because his texting style weirded me out. He wanted to meet for a date, but something about his tone sent off an alarm in my gut. Voice was passive. Short and sparse. Uninterested. idk seemed bored in tone with. periods in the middle of sentences.

I tried to justify it at first. Is he just bad with diction? How am I supposed to wholeheartedly interact with someone like that?

SslimReaperr · 2020-03-17T19:10:33+00:00

Agree then ghost :-)

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