You might attract less guys because of your strict standards but thats good.

One thing i adopted from FDS is that i always hold back on what the guy wants.

No emotional investment No sex No financial investment

I became very passive in interacting with guys for dates and it worked out wellfor me.

Guys could never get mad at me as they cant pinpoint what i did wrong. I listen, observe and show them in actions.

I do think being feminine isnt just about wearing feminine clothes but more about being passive and letting guys take the lead. And in this way he is making investment in you which makes him harder to leave.

I never ever show my anger but just ignore the guys. And thats the real way to hurt mens ego.