I was messaging this guy and he over compliments me a lot. Iām not attracted to him so maybe thatās a reason why.
For example. We were talking about sleep and disorders and how it affects your skin. And he says āWell you must get a lot of sleep, because your skin looks great.ā And all I kept thinking to myself was āYeah okay, bud. Youāve only seen me with makeup on last time we were around eachotherā
And then one time he sent me a picture of something and when I responded in the morning he said āI hope you got that beauty sleepā.
It just makes me cringe. Itās creepy actually. So, I kind of stopped messaging him after that, because the comments just didnāt sit right with me. They arenāt malicious obviously, but it weirds me out and I canāt put my finger on the feeling except ācringeā and makes me stomach go āyuckā.
I might feel a little less cringe if he was really cute, so that may be why. But Iām not so certain. It comes off desperate and simply not normal. Kind of immature, even. I canāt describe it.
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I hate physical compliments from guys I barely know. But itās a good filter - lets me know that 1) they only care about looks and 2) theyāre stupid enough to think that compliments will get them laid and they think Iām stupid enough to fall for some pretty words.
Excessive compliments that arenāt looks related are weird too, early on. Theyāre just as manipulative.
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