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[–]FDSxMuffinVSrat7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol pincess mentality.
[–]_tinyimpFDS Apprentice107 points108 points109 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Hinge is terrible. The majority of men on there are still looking for ‘something casual’ even though it’s meant to be an app for serious relationships?! The last straw for me was when I saw a polyamorous couple looking for a third. WRONG APP. Deleted.
[–]xandreniaPickmeisha™️49 points50 points51 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I reported every guy that was just looking for sex. It’s fine if that’s what you’re looking for and I appreciated them being honest about it, but this is not the app to do so
[–]staywiththecrownFDS Newbie40 points41 points42 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I once reported a guy on Hinge who was using the app WHILE IN PRISON. Shit is wild.
[–]xandreniaPickmeisha™️9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How?! Aren’t they not allowed to have phones?
[–][deleted] 42 points43 points44 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
This is why you shouldn’t even bother responding to LVM’s low effort first messages. You should never teach them how to become better players. Just report and block.
[–]xandreniaPickmeisha™️17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
That’s what was upsetting! He replied to a prompt of mine and seemed like he was actually interested! I answered and talked about my career and why I’m passionate about it. He goes, “that’s cool! So you have snap?”
[–][deleted] 34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah that’s what I mean though, as soon as he revealed he was low-value (and boy you dodged a bullet) you should not have engaged with him. You shouldn’t have told him, “don’t ask for snap this early.” You should’ve just unmatched. Silence says everything.
[–]xandreniaPickmeisha™️10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re right
[–]romantickittyFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They are playing games. They are smart enough to be better but as soon as they can, they test the waters to see what they can get away with.
[–]marasloveFDS Newbie33 points34 points35 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hinge has the ugliest guys I’ve ever seen. At least it used to be an okay app, but now it’s no longer for long lasting relationships. The creators need to stop pushing it as that. Strange couples, incels, unmotivated guys looking for successful meal tickets. Ugh, a mess.
[–]azureangel35FDS Apprentice11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah that's a great big #fuckthatnoise from me. I don't know why their audacity still had the ability to surprise.
[–]FearlessfellFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good for you!
Next time don’t respond, just unmatch. Dont give him the opportunity to disrespect you even further. It’s clearly a waste of your time and energy.
[–]redwineandsolitudeFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Real quotes from Hinge profiles I’ve seen: “We’re the same type of weird if you can do this without being emotionally invested.” “Looking for a good looking girl to fool around with.” “I’m seeing someone right now so keep that in mind.” “I’m here for only a good time not a long time.” “I am currently in an open relationship.” I still have it because it’s better than Tinder but I’m thinking of switching to OKC soon. (Also, that guy is toxic, and he sucks).
[–]Karolin99_GerAt-Risk Pick Me Youth11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank God the Trash took itself out that early!!
[–]wayward_womanFDS Apprentice9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I've tried online dating before just to browse and get an idea of what kind of men are out there (since I wasn't yet ready to date at the time). I talked to lots of men and they were all trash. I even swiped right on ugly guys hoping they'd be better. But nope. Even the ugly guys were wannabe fuckboys. I'm still leveling up and not ready to put myself on the dating market yet, but I sure as hell will NOT use OLD when the time comes. Any suggestions where to meet quality men in the wild?
[–]theComebackQueenThrowaway Account4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This 100%! If you find the answer to your question, I’d love to know... especially with the state of the world rn
[–]PinkestMangoFDS Apprentice18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You shouldn't be using Snapchat at all. It is a cheater's tool.
[–]KitKat1705FDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The nerves!!!!! He wishes he could get'' girls''. I swear those men complain to hard for them to be getting '' girls '' left and right.
[–]AngylizyFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol, what a sad dude
[–]romantickittyFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I know FDS is not that positive about OLD but I still have okc because I truly don't have a better way of meeting eligible straight men. Tinder seems like a nightmare and I never really bought that Hinge and Bumble would be better.
[–]xandreniaPickmeisha™️3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OLD can work, I know several couples who are now married or engaged that met on OLD. It’s just too frustrating for me
[–]sahu_FDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oof that happened to me last week, I specifically say no snapchat on my profile, and this guy who said he wanted a relationship matched with me and then he says he broke up 3 weeks ago, so first he was looking to have some fun then get to the relationship part.
I should have unmatched him then, but I said define 'fun'. He said let's get snapping or something. The annoying factor is its clearly on my profile that I won't do it. So didn't say anything, just unmatched him as he was typing.
OLD is really, a bed of snakes and worms.
[–]vitryolicFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The anonymity of OLD and disposable nature of matches, make men feel like they can act without repercussion on OLD, and treat women as sub-human and less deserving of respect. 10/10 of these men would not dare make these kinds of comments in real life, because they are afraid of the (justified) reactions. When you consider it this way, and that these types target all the apps, it makes sense why there is such a high volume of LVM who can't get women in real life.
[–]ThattonerthoFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If he got plenty of girls he wouldn't be a) on a dating app at all or b) wasting his precious time cussing at a woman on said dating app for not begging him to fuck her
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