It is that tone of voice that people will use when they talk to small children - the coy, cutesy soft voice and often higher-pitched than their usual tone.

That's fine if they are talking to children or pets, but I am a very adult woman and when scrotes do that tone with me, I instantly feel offended. Can't you talk like normal, why do you have to talk like that? Are you trying to be flirty? What kind of flirting is that when you just makes me mad in record time? Do I look like a kid to you?

Anyone with me on this? It feels like a huge red flag when scrotes use that tone of voice when trying to flirt with you, and often with an ample dose of negging language too.

A healthy flirting tone is different right? I know when you are flirting you tone will change but I don't think it should sound like that.