expecting basic chivalry disqualifies you from a second date

Maisiebr · 2020-05-19T07:29:03+00:00

Wow, look! The trash takes itself out!😂

blackredrosepetals · 2020-05-19T06:02:45+00:00

Expecting a show of minimum effort = entitled bitch.

He speaks as if a second date with him is a prize.

BasieSkanks · 2020-05-19T07:21:20+00:00

Reddit behave like men paying for a date is such a rarity. I’ve had men pay for me to stay in expensive hotels (alone, they didn’t stay with me), just so I can hang out with them. They still don’t seem to understand that the man paying for the meal is about effort, not financial exploitation. We, as women, want to see effort and investment from the men who take us out, because this seems to be lacking in the relationship world.

LadyGrimes · 2020-05-19T10:29:16+00:00

But he'll sure as hell spend hundreds on only fans crap. And yes I say its crap because it is.

mscristalconnors · 2020-05-19T13:43:47+00:00

Men be really out here saying "I wouldn't pay for a stranger's meal" but wouldn't mind exchanging fluids with that so-called stranger.

They only like it when it benefits them.

DazzlingMolasses7 · 2020-05-19T06:28:07+00:00

Agree with you. It’s sad to me that men don’t want to be romantic. But unlike men, we aren’t entitled and that’s partially why fds pushes financial independence so much.

I would rather a guy be upfront about not paying. We aren’t compatible, better not to waste time. A lot of men pay for first dates begrudgingly. No thanks. I want a man who enjoys being generous with me, not one who pretends for a couple dates.

Maisiebr · 2020-05-19T07:26:15+00:00

the real real: ugly, poor men shouldn't be dating. 💁

BerryCocoLove · 2020-05-19T11:42:06+00:00

I just posted in another thread about men paying for dates.

Why is this even a thing and on what planet do men think that we should split the bill with them?!

It’s literally the most BASIC rule of dating. If a man asks you out, it’s expected that he’s going to show you a good time and wants to impress you. On the last first date I went on before lockdown, the man sent me flowers (we work in the same building) and showed up with expensive perfume as a gift. He also paid for my Uber ride home.

And men expect women to split a $50 dinner bill?? Sounds like a waste of time

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-05-19T11:51:06+00:00

Lol like it's up to them if they get a second date...

understatedalways · 2020-05-19T13:24:05+00:00

One guy I was talking to online wanted me to go on a date, but premised it with the fact that “all women are after a free meal” so he wouldn’t be paying. Bitch, please. I laughed him right out of my DMs.

blackredrosepetals · 2020-05-19T10:26:23+00:00

edit: lot of angry pm’s in my inbox from this. guess they just have to scream into the void cause i sure as hell ain’t wasting my time replying to their triggered diatribes.

rinabean · 2020-05-19T14:06:36+00:00

Can't reject her after the first date if it turns out it's actually all a fantasy

siberiansummer · 2020-05-20T02:15:40+00:00

So I see a LOOOOT of men complain about it online.. It's the primary complaint about FDS and they constantly say they's never date a women like that. But then NOBODY has ever asked me to split. I never offer either unless it's a serious relationship and I decide I want to treat him. I've been on a ton of dates too.

mscristalconnors · 2020-05-19T17:09:51+00:00

I love generous men! I repel broke men when I list my favorite restaurants 😂

ItsFreezen · 2020-05-19T15:22:59+00:00

He just proved he's not a provider.

Title	expecting basic chivalry disqualifies you from a second date
Author	blackredrosepetals
Upvotes	193
Comments	40
Date	May 19, 2020 6:00 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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