First date - field report

Ketolove604

August 23, 2020

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Title	First date - field report
Author	Ketolove604
Upvotes	192
Comments	30
Date	August 23, 2020 6:40 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ieykv3/first_date_field_report/
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Don't mention other men outright, that is tacky. He shouldn't be asking either. I know covid makes it tough lol, and I've been stir crazy too. I say 2-3 days notice because it's better to not be stir crazy, and to give him time to plan something properly, maybe make a reservation and a backup. Idk how old you are. I'll be blunt, if you are in high school, reservations aren't needed for grabbing sandwiches or ice cream. I'd go easier on you there, but get into the habit of planning ahead now even if that's your circumstance. 2 days gives yourself enough time to give yourself a manicure and a new blouse or whatever. For a very busy businesswoman, maybe even a full week's notice isn't asking too much. In this case, he asked you what day was good for you. All you had to do was name a day with more notice. I understand you were looking forward to meeting with a real human, but he's not your friend; he is a romantic interest. You're not just hanging around to entertain each other when bored, and he should get that message.

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