Forgive yourself for not knowing what you didn’t know then

africantheindian · 2020-01-22T19:20:02+00:00

The best feeling is knowing that you've grown from your mistakes.

Lekina55 · 2020-01-22T22:09:29+00:00

Girls. Every stupid “mistake” is your greatest learning tool. Yeah... ya feel like an idiot, get mad at yourself, “woulda, shoulda, coulda”. But then reflect and figure it out, forgive yourself, and start moving forward with greater knowledge. And do better next time. Every human being fucks up. It’s just another lesson. People are only stupid when they keep repeating the same stupid mistakes. (Or is that crazy? Ha.)

msheese22 · 2020-01-22T19:45:32+00:00

I’m so proud of breaking myself of dysfunctional habits. I love celebrating my growth because the decisions I’m making now aren’t the same ones I would have made a year ago. FDS has helped me to create the foundation for healthy relationships and I’m so appreciative of you all!

Anyanka-goes-rawr · 2020-01-22T21:55:23+00:00

This made me feel a little bit better about some pick me moves I’ve pulled in the past.

jetpatch · 2020-01-22T19:49:56+00:00

If you have unbearable cringe or any bad memories I recommend havening.

https://youtu.be/09IDxrXAi2s

level_up_always · 2020-01-23T00:27:07+00:00

I need to work on forgiving myself the most

ms_monquis · 2020-01-22T21:35:11+00:00

As the wise philosopher Robyn once said, "If you knew better, you could do better."

(Seriously, that song has been on my mind all day!)

https://youtu.be/iVDbl2buP0Q

quasarbar · 2020-01-22T20:56:30+00:00

THANK YOU

7_0f_9 · 2020-01-22T23:05:51+00:00

My mood for life lol 👌😍

ny-lady · 2020-01-23T02:53:40+00:00

Yes ladies just own it and move on to better things, we've all been there at least once!! its ok, what is not ok is to keep repeating.

If you do look within and heal the wounds. Most of the time its wounds from childhood/past relations making us act a fool. Most of have wounds/been wounded. Its ok even if you've done it more than once. Just own it and know you got you/can work through it so you dont run on the insanity wheel.

kantarra · 2020-01-23T00:26:45+00:00

Thank you, I needed to see this today!

missyou2017 · 2020-01-23T04:57:34+00:00

Me cringing from my past actions / memories didn't stop me from repeating them sadly

Loiacono3137 · 2020-01-23T04:35:04+00:00

Needed this

Pale_Reflection_ · 2020-01-23T06:48:36+00:00

There are different kinds of cringes. It means you have been grown up when it doesn't affect you while replaying them in your mind and it really feels like happening to different person.

But some cringes are shaking me emotionally so hard that they make it extra difficult to get over things and grow up.

insecureome89 · 2020-01-23T17:36:57+00:00

Needed this as I struggle to forgivr myself for dating an ass years back

Title	Forgive yourself for not knowing what you didn’t know then
Author	thewetdog_
Upvotes	1404
Comments	30
Date	January 22, 2020 5:21 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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