HVM Education for LVMs. Read #4

FluffandRainclouds · 2020-04-09T00:57:05+00:00

That article absolutely should be read by everyone. Interesting how many women here had such a message all but beaten into them and developed imposter syndrome. "Well yeah, I earned my PhD, make a living wage, actively volunteer at the soup kitchen, and get mistaken for Rihanna, but what do I bring to the table?" Meanwhile LVM are like "I refuse to take care of myself or contribute to society. Be my mum and validate the delusion I'm perfect?"

persephones_torch · 2020-04-09T02:43:51+00:00

I love this and actually needed to read this to motivate myself to be more creative and create more content rather than consuming content.

Dottie_Dottie · 2020-04-09T01:19:57+00:00

“Saying you’re a nice guy is like a restaurant whose only selling point is that the food doesn’t make you sick.” Great quote from the article.

ethnicallyabiguous · 2020-04-09T00:22:59+00:00

The whole article is an amazing read truthfully.

ethnicallyabiguous · 2020-04-09T02:47:36+00:00

I saved this article when it first came out and come back to it when I need a good kick in the ass. It’s very motivational.

ethnicallyabiguous · 2020-04-09T01:01:08+00:00

Further evidence this author is sane.

honeybeeroll · 2020-04-09T03:54:31+00:00

This was awesome, thanks for sharing. It was a great swift kick in the ass for me haha. I am using quarantine to try to get into a daily exercise routine, learn to cook, eat better, and read everyday, so maybe I can write again, but I get really discouraged and overwhelmed all the time, I feel like, idk I'm so stupid to be this old and not having my life together. But this was a good reminder there's nothing else to do but try, no matter how long it takes. Hope the incels he wrote it for take it to heart, but doubtful 🙄

wyethwye · 2020-04-09T03:55:15+00:00

I feel like I'm going to read this article every single day to motivate me to keep working on my quarantine projects! This just made more sure that staying single to work on myself is the best option for me. Hell yeah, thanks so much for linking this!

Ka_Tetof99 · 2020-04-09T06:11:19+00:00

This was an excellent kick in the ass. Thank you.

thedrunkcuteblonde · 2020-04-09T00:51:07+00:00

Excellent. This needs to be on the required reading list for high schoolers.

EntireTadpole · 2020-04-09T09:34:40+00:00

Thank you for posting this, it really is a breath of fresh air.

ErikaNaumann · 2020-04-09T13:16:28+00:00

Thank you for posting this. I'm gonna print this article to keep motivating myself to improve more and more 👍

Title	HVM Education for LVMs. Read #4
Author	ethnicallyabiguous
Upvotes	62
Comments	22
Date	April 9, 2020 12:06 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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