Hello ladies, I got so sick of meeting up with LVM so I stopped dating for a really long time. Fast forward to about three months ago and I thought I met the most amazing guy! He texted me good morning frequently but, not too much. Checked up on me over text regardless of how busy he was but, preferred to hang out in person rather than texting or calling. Always paid for the bill. Accepted me for who I was. And made an effort to make me feel special by planning staycations and taking me to restaurants I only had to hint at wanted to go to. Told me he wanted to provide for me… the whole nine. He was always a super sweet consistent man and I really had thought I hit the jackpot finding someone like him.

Until… a little over a week ago we were having drinks with some friends. We both got super drunk and someone brought up that our chemistry was amazing and that we should seriously date. When his friends left the room I looked to him and asked him what he thought. Wrong place and wrong time for sure but the liquor had me feeling super confident. He stuttered for a bit and compared our situation to a show we watched where ultimately the two people don’t end up together long term but become good friends. This caught me way out of left field and lead to an argument later in his car where he yelled at me in a way I haven’t seen before.

Since then the good morning texts have ceased and we haven’t hung out at all. He claims his next few weeks are busy with travel but, I know once the excuses start that’s the beginning of the end. My feelings are super hurt because I really liked him but it’s obviously not meant to be.

Did I do too much by asking about dating after three months of courting? What do you guys think of this situation.

I will be leaving him alone and no longer reaching out because at the end of the day if he wanted me to be a part of his life he would be as consistent as he was since day 1.