I cannot believe this even needs to be said.

trettles · 2020-07-17T18:35:44+00:00

The other thing is, this WILL NOT change once you move in together. If he can’t even clean his space in the stage where he’s supposed to be trying to impress you, there’s no way he’s going to do it once you have been together a couple of years +. The burden will then be you to maintain things to your standard and you will be forever fighting against the tide and resenting him.

Thestral-glow6 · 2020-07-17T19:23:37+00:00

The OP still stayed and slept with that filthy dude even after seeing his room though 🤢🤮.. I honestly would have left once I’d seen his home in that state.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-07-17T19:24:32+00:00

This is why you dump a guy when you see his car is filthy or he is filthy or his clothing as filthy. Before you go to his house and find out it's filthy. The first time.

seraphinelysion · 2020-07-17T19:13:33+00:00

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giftofnocondemnation · 2020-07-17T20:03:12+00:00

A dated a guy last year, that would leave my toilet seat up in my apartment. I put a huge sign on the wall, that said "put the seat down." He still did not put it down. He is a disrespectful pig. He had a tiny dick too, so you would think he would be extra nice. Nope. He couldn't even respect my rules in my own apartment.

a-shrinking-violet · 2020-07-17T20:41:21+00:00

Ugh, I dated someone like this. His personal hygiene was fine, but his apartment was a NEST.

Never again will I explain to a grown man basic housekeeping.

HottPinkSlug · 2020-07-17T19:32:54+00:00

Even at my most pick meisha I could not deal with a gross apartment 🙅🏻‍♀️

idiosyncraticg1 · 2020-07-17T22:53:12+00:00

Lol I was seeing someone who was SO good on paper. Great job, nice guy. I went over to his place before a date and it was pretty gross. Completely killed my attraction to him.

lival42 · 2020-07-17T21:43:49+00:00

If his domicile is too filthy for you, so is he.

ReignRain95 · 2020-07-17T22:58:45+00:00

How about both?

bean-cake · 2020-07-18T02:50:13+00:00

I’m literally gagging. If I’d of walked in, I’d leave right after. Disgusting, UNIMAGINABLE 🤢🤮

Title	I cannot believe this even needs to be said.
Author	BasieSkanks
Upvotes	126
Comments	22
Date	July 17, 2020 6:27 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ht10uo/i_cannot_believe_this_even_needs_to_be_said/
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