I think I did the right thing.. ? Help. TLDR.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-08-04T14:00:06+00:00

Oh my God honey! This guy sounds crazy, like an abuser, anger issues, emotionally unstable, and clearly he's using his friends to play women and get in their pants. No one who is stable likes anyone that much after one date. That's was not real. Also he's a cheater of course.

Also you have to pick better. This is a hot mess from the start. Just admit you went on a date because he was hot and you wanted him. No one needs friends so badly they need to meet it cheating guy and his dumb buddies when first moving to any town. If you want to fuck hotties at least find single ones who aren't embarrassing.

Also you got to read the handbook.

paperbagskirt · 2020-08-04T14:25:16+00:00

Your “forbidden Nigerian prince?” Is this for real?

pickmieshaexorcist · 2020-08-04T14:07:32+00:00

Nope, you knew he had a gf from the start and yet you dated and kissed him anyway. This is all highly inappropriate and you share some of the responsibility. Trying to frame it as you knew and were putting him in his place, no girl. He’s also driving drunk? He’s scum and probably so are his “amazing friends” because I don’t believe for one second they don’t know about his gf.

swatir24 · 2020-08-04T14:14:28+00:00

You kissed him knowing he had a girlfriend, under the guise of friendship? And even after that disastrous "date" you texted him first and then kept trying to stay in contact. And then HE blocked you.

I don't see what you did right here.

sewingmachinesavior · 2020-08-04T15:49:59+00:00

Actually single men only. No girlfriends. No married but separated. If you engage with partnered men, you are hurting OTHER WOMEN.

eveninghope · 2020-08-04T14:07:01+00:00

So at least you made it out of this one alive. The red flag was when he started getting too "friendly" despite him having a gf. That's where you should have cut contact. But it definitely could have been worse.

Alma00019 · 2020-08-04T17:47:25+00:00

What exactly are you asking? That you did the right thing for... doing what? Sounds like you got blocked by a guy you knew had a girlfriend. Why are you upset he blocked you? You should have blocked him as soon as you saw he had a girlfriend, but definitely after the first date when he confirmed it!

You knew the guy had a girlfriend, but you continued going on dates with him because he was hot and was spoiling you. I kind of get the impression that if he hadn't blocked you, you still would have been dancing around not-date dating him.

You need to accept that you are 50% to blame for this. You KNEW he had a girlfriend. His social media made it obvious, and he confirmed it, yet you went full speed ahead.

I'm sorry, I'm truly not trying to bash you, but girl...

EDIT: Just saw you're 20. I guess part of this mess on your side can be chalked up to your age, but still at 20 people know right from wrong. Men with girlfriends, fiancees, wives, etc are no go! How would you like if it your boyfriend, fiancé, husband started cheating on you? Don't be impressed by an older man's money.

dzgata · 2020-08-04T22:23:10+00:00

This is a mess and you came across badly. Let’s not pretend like you were moral here. Y’all both trashy for this. He’s more trashy bc he owed her loyalty but you’re trashy too because you KNEW he had a gf. You should’ve declined and blocked from the moment you knew he was in a relationship.

Title	I think I did the right thing.. ? Help. TLDR.
Author	pharmazootical
Upvotes	0
Comments	29
Date	August 4, 2020 6:25 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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