If they try to change you

Twolipz_78 · 2021-06-11T00:30:06+00:00

I am sorry for the pickme that stayed when he said he wanted to “fix” me and “mold” me..

lansburysoda · 2021-06-11T03:16:42+00:00

When my ex who was borderline schizophrenic with a personality disorder tried to convince me I was the one with mental health issues because I would get sad when he insulted me and put me down 🥴 and I stayed

_electrafire · 2021-06-11T01:19:59+00:00

Love this! Do you ladies have any examples or red flags when it comes to signs that a guy is trying to change you? My pick-me days were hyper-focused on trying to change the guy, so I haven’t really considered it the other way around

asoww · 2021-06-11T04:03:06+00:00

There was a male former friend that tried it with me. So fucking weird. Fortunately I may have been in the peak of pick me days, I still had the courage to spell out strong boundaries regarding his comments. Trash.

Title	If they try to change you
Author	AC7878
Upvotes	244
Comments	15
Date	June 11, 2021 12:19 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/nx2pfd/if_they_try_to_change_you/
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