In my last relationship I posted about, one of the last conversations we had was about the way he treated me. Now obviously looking back at it, I learned sooo much about LVM and low value people in general.
It kind of went like this:
Me: "Would you want to treat your daughter the way you treat me?"
Him: "I'll have a boy" Note: this is literally so low value and such a red flag answer. What if you don't have a boy? I'm genuinely scared if this dude has a daughter.
Me: "Don't avoid the question."
Him: "Of course I wouldn't want to treat her the way I treat you"
Me: "Then why are you treating me this way?"
Him: "Why is it okay to try and bring me down?"
Basically the end of that conversation. It kind of made me shrivel up in my body just thinking that some men are really this way. I don't try to dwell on my past too much. But I definitely think this moment should be brought up, because if he basically just tells you straight to your face he wouldn't treat you with basic respect and the minimum care, why continue to have that relationship?
Just LVM things lmao.
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