Men hate women who date interracially

tellmesomething11 · 2020-05-09T03:17:04+00:00

I’ve seen it happen with me, I meet a guy, I show him a picture of my children (who are mixed) and he said “they looked mixed” which I replied they were. He asked and I said they were mixed with black and he was like that I only like black guys because they have big cocks.

I’m puertorican....I was like have you even looked up what puertoricans are? We have black blood🙄.

I ended up ghosting but I’ve always been turned off by that guy. He was Asian...highly toxic.

cherrybombfield · 2020-05-09T04:39:46+00:00

Yes it is true, yet at the same time it is totally fine for them to date interracial. Total double standard and bc they at least white men don't want to be called racist they won't tell you they have an issue with it they will just start treating you like you are less than. Suddenly you are damaged goods. They are so dumb. See when they do it it is an adventure but when we do it we are gross or less than. Morons.

Trocek · 2020-05-09T06:07:01+00:00

So trye. My ex was furious seeing Asian women dating white guys, but I'm white myself

Saitschik · 2020-05-09T08:01:30+00:00

I live in Spain and some white guys suggested I only moved for the men. I was speechless when I heard that for the first time and even more when I realised that MANY men thought this.

It is a mixture between intense jealously and superiority what they feel. I know some of them wouldn't want me anymore if I dated a Spanish man.

Not only are they racist trash, their double standards are ridiculous

Davina33 · 2020-05-09T11:20:59+00:00

Yep I am mixed race. Half Indian, about a quarter black Jamaican and quarter white French. Even though I'm not black, black men seem to think they own me and I've got grief from them when out with white boyfriends. I even got kicked out of a pub once because of it. I'm no man's property.

cremeblushers · 2020-05-09T04:36:12+00:00

So so true. I’m mixed and the same black men at school and even at one of my workplaces who would grossly fetishize me for being “eXoTIC” and “not like other black girls” 🤮 turned around and gave me disgusting looks and called me the worst names when they found out I was dating none black men and preferred it that way. You would think I killed their family or something by the way they constantly called me a bedwench. I ended up quitting that job bc it was so bad.

sadcello · 2020-05-09T11:38:28+00:00

r/hapa are the fucking worst, they hate Asian women who date interracially but promotes Asian men who date interracially. Hypocrisy at it's finest, just men thinking they own women just for being the same race as them but of course men can always do whatever the fuck they want. They're all the fucking same. Fucking selfish, entitled cumbrains.

Sister_Winter · 2020-05-09T19:48:58+00:00

For real. I've had so many super ugly, mean and nasty white dudes get furious with me that I'm dating a lovely, handsome, attentive, well-dressed man because he's Korean and they think their whiteness should make up for their uncountable flaws. It's not only hilariously delusional, it's mega racist.

sisima_sharazd · 2020-05-09T11:13:01+00:00

This is so true... ughhh they feel like they are conquered... how disgusting. A real sickness that their pride is tied to our v.

balladwilds · 2020-05-09T18:45:30+00:00

Yeah i never understood why. Arab men always call us "our women" and im just like ? no ? We are not your property. I'm not even attracted to men of my own race.. We are allowed to date outside of our own race.

gigababejfl · 2020-05-09T11:29:35+00:00

LMFAO

he told that basically men feel that they should protect " their women" and when they see a woman from the Same ethnic group date outside of her race they feel that they are being "conquered" and they are loosing them.

Yes that's right. They do think this. But jfl, even if women wanted to entertain this especially in the US

they want all the ownership with zero responsibility for anyone or anything. Not even their offspring. Meaning yes, own your physical body and have no responsibility to the wellbeing of your mind or joy. Sex sex sex, indentured servitude, sex

Unless they can't afford that then it's do all that but also, pay them half.

Then when you look for consistency in ideology, its simply "male biology" to try and conquer all those races of women but not so much biology to demonstrate any sort of leadership or pride in identity and God forbid you mention "female biology". Why, female biology? That's just demonic and unnatural.

Imagine forfeiting your rights as a woman to men who think this irrationally.

That's why if you ever have dated interracially shut the fuck about it because the chances that men will lose interest in you if they found about it is pretty much higher

At the state of things its tempting to say not to mention you ever dated anyone at all! But I will fight that urge and say the opposite.

It's better you know the attitudes of the HVM you're trying to be with because if it turns out your HVM is a misogynistic bigot, best find this out before letting him into your life and bearing him a child. If that sort of this is important to you personally that is.

Whateverbabe2 · 2020-05-09T04:00:11+00:00

Just gonna mention real quick that Muslims don't like marriage outside of their religion, not race. Interracial marriage is very common for Muslim families and I've never heard of anything against it. I myself am a child from an interracial Muslim family.

0kfornow · 2020-05-09T14:46:21+00:00

Yeah men think women are objects which can be owned by people (people being men)... Its completely illogical but thats men for you.

2020-05-09T03:36:53+00:00

It's just male entitlement. They think they own women. They think women of their race are their property. You ever heard a smegmoid talk about the perks of different countries? They'll usually say something like "their women are the hottest." Their women, like women are commodities and public property.

The most ironic part is that said males like to brag about how they pursue women of other races because "their" women are XYZ (usually not submissive). White men hate white women, black men hate black women, Hispanic men hate Hispanic women, Indian men hate Indian women. Men hate women in general but feel a sense of entitlement over women of their own race especially.

saffron25 · 2020-05-09T08:01:44+00:00

Yes!!!! I thought it was only the black community but it’s actually a damn problem. The thing is they want to date outside their race but don’t want women to do the same

Takayna98 · 2020-05-09T12:34:04+00:00

So I am of mixed race being Native-American and African-South-American decent. When me and my siblings were children we were taught about the enslavement of our African ancestors and the genocide of our Native-American ancestors. The elders in my family therefore consider dating white men/women to be spitting in the face of out ancestors. The reason why it's hated so much is, at least in my case, because of cultural reasons and history.

Myshtah · 2020-05-09T17:51:44+00:00

Being mixed race rocks. I can only date outside of my race so I can piss off more people :)

sisima_sharazd · 2020-05-09T18:57:33+00:00

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sisima_sharazd · 2020-05-09T23:02:08+00:00

I notice these themes are used by political entities to indoctrinate men into their political beliefs.

2020-05-09T04:04:54+00:00

They genuinely think they own the women within their own group. Doesn't matter if they actually don't own them, they will always see women as property.

2020-05-09T12:13:01+00:00

I'm from a mixed family. One of my white cousins outright said he'd kill his daughter if she ever dated outside her race. I believe him. He's a white supremacist. But he had a black gf for almost 10 years before he knocked up a white chick. Fucking hypocrite.

And the Muslim thing isn't race, it's religious law. Muslim women are not allowed to date at all, and they can't marry non Muslim men. The marriage is considered invalid by Sharia. Muslims won't recognize it and consider her living in fornication. But Muslims marry interracially all the time.

shewas23 · 2020-05-11T19:12:08+00:00

Those men are the biggest hypocrites. It's only ok if they do it!

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