Just because he gets a haircut before going on a date with you, does not mean he's high value.

Just because he texts you first thing in the morning, does not mean he's high value.

Just because he cleans his apartment to impress you, does not mean he's high value.

Just because he ditches his friends to be with you, does not mean he's high value.

Just because he shares his video games with you, does not mean he's high value.

Just because he says he wants to dress nice for you, does not mean he’s high value.

Men will do absolutely anything to “sweep you off your feet” to get into your pants. When I mean anything, I mean anything. They're good at pretending. The moment you open your legs, that "respect" that you believed he had for you? Gone. He's high value if those actions are consistent. Why have sex with someone who you're not even in a committed relationship with? What have they done to deserve that part of you? Why be vulnerable with someone who is just doing the bare minimum.