Not “somehow.....” It’s because they know EXACTLY what they’re doing.

Dorkamus_Rex · 2020-12-24T21:37:23+00:00

I saw a post on Instagram about some girl trying to get her husband to help clean the house, so she tried to make it more like a video game. "Oh honey there's a quest to sweep the floor,"now there's a snickers candy bar if you fold the laundry."

Can someone please explain to me why the fuck men think they need to have everything gamified to make it a valid thing worth doing? All of these things need to be done regardless of whether they're fun or not, and she's expending the mental energy to think up a fucking game for him to play like he's her 5-year-old.

It doesn't help that all the comments were praising her for finding such a unique way of getting her husband to engage. When the bar is set so low you can't even see it anymore. 🤦🤦🤦🤦

Gambit12345 · 2020-12-24T20:39:33+00:00

My ex would work out every logistic when we went to show or festival that he chose and pester me to help him. But if it were something I wanted to do such as a dinner date I had to plan it all by myself with no input from him and he literally told me so. They put effort into what they care about. It just so happens men hate going on the kind of dates that we would love. As we’ve said before, if he wanted to he would.

shortywannarock · 2020-12-24T20:42:09+00:00

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chatrebelle · 2020-12-24T22:53:02+00:00

They make an effort at their jobs, in their "hobbies" and sometimes in their side relationship. They can plan ou logistic for cheating but somehow can't plan a simple grocery trip. It's not because they can't, it's because they don't want to.

seraphinelysion · 2020-12-25T01:04:37+00:00

They have every capability to get anything done, but they only put their time, energy, and attention to what is important to them. It's very telling. If he's not investing any of that with you, you're not important to him.

n3rdgir7 · 2020-12-25T03:47:38+00:00

Men are absolutely useless...

For a large percentage of them, you can honestly stop after the first four words

cumlady · 2020-12-25T02:21:01+00:00

Y’all, I went to a fantasy draft pick party with my ex one time. There were legit charts and graphs. One dude even made look alike SIMS of each guy in the group and had them play out wrestling matches. The only reason it was bearable for me was the awesome bbq and alcohol.

SamuelaTheThrifty · 2020-12-24T23:24:32+00:00

I don’t understand fantasy sports teams. What’s the point?

Title	Not “somehow.....” It’s because they know EXACTLY what they’re doing.
Author	tauredi
Upvotes	891
Comments	22
Date	December 24, 2020 7:42 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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