When I tried online dating I thought it was going to be great, OLD is so easy for girls any girl on earth can get hot models online or so I always heard.

Then no one I found hot was even matching with me to my dismay, so I accepted matching with guys I would never even consider dating because I wasn’t matching with who I wanted at all. Some of these older, plain, chubby men even still tried to ask just for sex.

Now when I do match with anyone attractive usually I can expect to hear something extremely sexually forward and lewd, and clearly aren’t serious about dating and just want some fooling around. I don’t post any body photos just face pics.

The only guys asking me out on dinner dates excitedly are guys just not attractive to me at all and it doesn’t even happen that often either.

Even today on reddit I spoke with a very attractive black man who is definitely attractive enough for me and I told him I’m struggling to get any guys I find attractive to take me on a date and he was honestly shocked and didn’t get it. He said I’m definitely very pretty and enough so he’s actually shocked. I’ve had more than one man tell me I’m gorgeous and attractive enough to attract a man to ask me on a date.

Honestly men online choose to ask women out based on photos. I don’t say anything trashy, insane and I come across as simply friendly online.

I honestly feel so ugly and confused and depressed over this, I really need help in understanding and getting over it. Please don’t try to say it’s personality, men ask women on OLD based on photos and attraction only

I’m a confident girl, I know I’m really pretty too, I never compare myself to other girls bc I love how I look but I cant help thinking if I was a supermodel I could get a guy I’m attracted to take me to dinner