Pathetic... Yet another way for “men” to absolve themselves of responsibility for their actions.

AyemHerself · 2020-05-03T02:41:17+00:00

No, usually they leave the kids too until those few times when looking like a good dad helps him socially.

SuchBarracuda · 2020-05-03T02:24:57+00:00

imo chances are when he left, his kids were an afterthought in his choices and mind.

mightbethrowawayyy · 2020-05-03T02:42:22+00:00

Don’t worry sir, your kids will despise you and stop talking to you as soon as they can.

Otters-eating-tacos · 2020-05-03T04:28:45+00:00

Or maybe we can stop being angry at women for getting upset over the fact they had to endure pregnancies, bodily changes and the burden of motherhood without any support of the baby daddy who dumped her, and statistically most likely cheated on her

MuffinSongs · 2020-05-03T02:55:19+00:00

Or those assholes use the kids to control their ex and keep tabs on them. Motherfuckers

2020-05-03T14:14:03+00:00

I hate how society always blames women for men having shitty relationships with their children. The majority of men who have shitty relationships with their children do so because they were shit parents who didn’t put in time or effort. Tons of men can go days without even trying to talk to their children, in fact men talking to their kids everyday for 5-10 minutes is seriously all it takes for a man to be considered a good parent. I can’t imagine women getting away with shit that men do.

jupiterocean · 2020-05-03T18:05:34+00:00

My ex is actually here right now visiting my baby. I’m in the other room. NVM has blamed “being tired, depressed, and/or anxious” as reasons for not seeing our daughter, who is 4 months old, for the last 3 months. I am villainized by his family even though I have never denied this loser the opportunity to see his daughter.

Can’t even fathom the reasons he actually gives people for why he hasn’t seen her. This is why he doesn’t even get the pleasure of seeing my face.

I will never understand why these NVM are the way they are, but at this point I have given up trying and just trust that they suck.

radical__daphne · 2020-05-03T09:37:11+00:00

"his kids"

Seraphinx · 2020-05-03T10:46:10+00:00

'Baller Alert' is all I needed to see.

septemberfinestt · 2020-05-04T07:54:16+00:00

I agree kids should not suffer shitty life choices, It takes two people to make a baby if the guy turns out to be a piece of gigantic shit then LEAVE THE RELATIONSHIP but you have NO RIGHT to make decisions for the kid, decisions that will later impact the child in his teen & adult life. If you can’t use fucking protection and CHOOSE to conceive a child and KEEP a child from a LVM you have a responsibility to cater to this child need of healthy parental figures in his life. Who do y’all think y’all are. That is cruel. Close your legs to LVM men

Title	Pathetic... Yet another way for “men” to absolve themselves of responsibility for their actions.
Author	caoutchouck
Upvotes	115
Comments	23
Date	May 3, 2020 1:59 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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