Remember ladies: Never change yourself for the sake of a man. Be free.

onemoredaydream · 2019-12-05T01:15:30+00:00

It's the urge to capture a butterfly and pin it to a board.

lasolterita · 2019-12-04T23:28:32+00:00

Those men: *Want women to fulfill their every wish & change, if necessary, to do so*

Pickmes: *oblige*

Those men: Dear Reddit, my wife used to be so EXCITING and FREE but ever since she had my kids and started following my every command I just haven't been attracted to her??

lhatehijabyouwearit · 2019-12-04T23:33:11+00:00

I saw this on 90 day fiance. The couple name is Paola and Russ if youre interested. The man is a Christian, married a giga-Stacy bikini model, knew she did that kind of modeling, married her, and suddenly expected her to be a house wife to to stop modeling forever. She still did it and didn't give a shit about what he wanted and told him straight up she isn't going to change. He knew who he was marrying, but expected her to change ASAP. She is a Queen Sh*t.

Sea_Leek · 2019-12-05T00:48:14+00:00

this is the situation kim and kanye are in

dissonantlotus · 2019-12-05T00:39:39+00:00

I want this wonderful woman and once she’s mine I’m going to crush her. Oh. Okay. Wtf men?!

ThatsWhat__I__Said · 2019-12-05T06:03:27+00:00

I hope this is okay to share, this poem embodies this sentiment so beautifully.

Caged Bird BY MAYA ANGELOU

A free bird leaps

and floats downstream

'til the current ends

and dips his wing

in the orange sun rays

and dares to claim the sky

But a bird that stalks

down his narrow cage

can seldom see through

his bars of rage

his wings are clipped and

his feet are tied

so he opens his throat to sing.

The caged bird sings

with a fearful trill

of things unknown

but longed for still

and his tune is heard

on the distant hill

for the caged bird

sings of freedom.

The free bird thinks of another breeze

and the trade winds soft through the sighing trees

and the fat worms waiting on a dawn bright lawn

and he names the sky his own

But a caged bird stands on the grave of dreams

his shadow shouts on a nightmare scream

his wings are clipped and his feet are tied

so he opens his throat to sing.

The caged bird sings

with a fearful trill

of things unknown

but longed for still

and his tune is heard

on the distant hill

for the caged bird

sings of freedom.

Rexins · 2019-12-05T04:55:12+00:00

Boys are afraid of losing what they never deserved in the first place.

Real men know that enabling freedom and expression to their partner allows both to flourish.

Bryce1215 · 2019-12-04T23:29:11+00:00

@KanyeWest

Haltthemoon · 2019-12-08T16:32:33+00:00

Yes! This! I was dating this guy for about a month. He was divorced and told me his marriage was essentially sexless and he wanted more. I'm a very confident woman in all aspects of my life including sex. I thought we were having great sex and he commented on how he's missed out so much in his marriage. Well, earlier this week, he broke up with me. One of the reasons was that I'm too confident especially in the bedroom. I don't even know what that means but I think he thinks because I know what I want and I know what I'm doing in bed, he got extremely scared and definitely judgemental. Oh well, next!

Title	Remember ladies: Never change yourself for the sake of a man. Be free.
Author	ins0mnikat
Upvotes	822
Comments	21
Date	December 4, 2019 9:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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