Shit like this makes me SO MAD 😡

virginiadancer · 2020-04-28T12:49:49+00:00

Honestly though the comments are gold. Lots of men chiming in there too. Women are starting to figure out they are better off without taking care of a man child.

djfrankenjuice · 2020-04-28T12:32:23+00:00

While my wife “choose” to do household chores.

Did not get past the title. Unless she’s OCD cleaning (which is not “household chores”) yea you’re the asshole for sitting around and not helping.

loftycries · 2020-04-28T13:57:53+00:00

This comment was ON POINT:

“So she parents the kids, does most of the chores, does all the mental labour and works full time. So she does a lot more than you. Yet you think you deserve a break? That's pretty pathetic. Why do you think that's okay? Maybe you should swap for a month and live in her shoes. You'd be breaking down after a day. You also need to stop being crappy about your kids. Save the video games for 1-2 nights a week, spend your time with your wife and kids. You're failing right now. Right now, she has an extra child. You're not even a partner right now, rather a parasite. I can't blame her for wanting out, her life wouldn't change much because she's already doing 95% of the work. You're meant to have each others back, but you'd rather shove her off a cliff to drown instead. You're standing there, watching her drown because no one should do all the things she does without help. And it seems like you don't care one bit.

You need counselling because the way you talk about your wife is vile. Do you even like her? Because it sounds like you don't. Do you love your kids? Because it sounds like you don't even care for them. You should be dealing with the kids as much as she does. And when you have no relationship with your kids when you're older, you've only got yourself to blame, because you're making no effort and you've made it blatant to them that your video games come first. Are you one of those guys who calls taking care of his kids alone babysitting? For shame. You won't build a bond with them if you don't put down the games every night. Do you even know what they like? What they dislike? What size clothing do they wear? You sound like an absent father.

This is embarrassing. I can't believe you think you're in the right.

While I don't think cheating is right at all, I can understand why she would be looking for affection from others outside the marriage as it's clear that you hold her in contempt so affection is probably non existence.

Also, no adult should have to pick up another adults mess. I mean, it's not that hard to not leave things on the floor, put rubbish in the bin, wash up after making a meal etc. It's disrespectful to expect someone else to clean up your mess.

You need to make some serious changes and make them quickly. I would suggest therapy. Both as a couple and you singular. You've got to understand how selfish you're being right now. Hopefully a therapist can guide you so you can change your behaviour for the better and understand that you need to step up.

YTA.”

Ink3dmama · 2020-04-28T13:53:00+00:00

Sounds like my ex-husband. Not surprisingly, his life completely fell apart after I finally left his worthless, childish ass.

Capable_Okra · 2020-04-28T14:24:22+00:00

This kind of post just makes me grateful I'm single and not parenting a manbaby

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-04-28T14:30:36+00:00

She needs a divorce from this clown like yesterday.

Deep-Blackberry · 2020-04-28T16:20:35+00:00

I saw that earlier. For some reason, I wasn't surprised when I saw him mention video games, I already KNEW what kind of person he was right then and there. I play video games myself, but I've noticed more and more men will prioritize that over everything else going on in their life. It annoys the hell out of me to see that can't put the down controller or mouse.

No one CHOOSES to do household chores, its a mutual understanding to keep the house clean. He's just a lazy manchild who doesn't want to do shit around the house. I seriously hope his wife divorces him.

nutshit · 2020-04-28T21:50:38+00:00

Wow ... comment section ripped him a new one. It’s deleted tho anybody have the full post?

Meredeen · 2020-04-28T20:08:05+00:00

The comments there are making me crack up though, they are incinerating him haha

seraphinelysion · 2020-04-28T18:02:39+00:00

Whenever I read shit like this, I have flashbacks to my ex and the PTSD is real. He left socks everywhere. Hardly ever did the dishes unprompted. Never did a load of laundry in 14 years together. And would sit for HOURS playing video games.

This one time, I came home from work (he wasn't working at the time; in between jobs) and I could HEAR him playing a video game upstairs and I walked into the kitchen with a sink full of HIS dishes (cause I wasn't home to dirty them). He comes downstairs to greet me only to find me all pissy in the kitchen about the damn dishes and he says, and I swear to god, "Sorry, I didn't have TIME to do the dishes." 🤣

helljess86 · 2020-04-28T16:41:44+00:00

I hope she dumps his ass.

Lethalprincessrabbit · 2020-04-29T01:36:07+00:00

what makes me feel better is that he's being full flamed in the comments. Grilled LVM for dinner 🔥

Title	Shit like this makes me SO MAD 😡
Author	aliahos1234
Upvotes	89
Comments	17
Date	April 28, 2020 12:14 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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