Society needs to stop enabling these LVM’s

Basic-Fruit-6502 · 2021-06-13T20:53:58+00:00

Society will never stop enabling them… do you know why? Society IS a LVM. Their behaviour benefits men so it will only get worse. Sorry to be blackpill but i have a horrible feeling it will get worse

Peak_Tree · 2021-06-13T21:43:05+00:00

At least the woman part of society should ( I'm not putting my hopes on men as a class). And that's why men all over the internet are so antagonistic towards this sub: It's making women realize they don't have to live as enablers for LVM. Women are after all half of society. The half whose unpaid unapreciated labor the whole thing relies on.

UnstrirringCoffee · 2021-06-13T22:06:40+00:00

But if men are supposed to be “leaders” and “providers” how did we end up here?

It's the epitome of capitalist patriarchy, create the problem and then sell yourself as the solution to the victims. Men have created a dangerous world in which women have fewer economic opportunities. Men then sell themself (and make no mistake the price for us is high) as "provider" and "protector" as a "solution" to the shit they created for us in the first place.

vbych76 · 2021-06-14T03:13:34+00:00

It is rotten. All of it. You know what happens - now we are being sold the "dream", that if we want to procreate, which is evolutionary in its roots, we have to continue to burden ourselves with everything around this process, from conceiving to college.To not only coddle the man's ego, but actively overachieve ( with a smile at that) in every aspect of our lives- physically, academically, emotionally, professionally, financially etc, so we can "provide" comfort and financial stability for the family and our children, continue to interact and take care of all family members on both sides and all this, while we defend ourselves from the laws that men are imposing on us, that threaten our health and safety.

myoklife · 2021-06-14T11:42:00+00:00

Society needs to start valuing traits like empathy and compassion. Right now those are the worst traits to have - they've been branded as "sensitive," "emotional" (which somehow has been branded as the opposite of "logical"), weak, etc. Instead society has chosen to worship abusive psychopathic CEOs/billionaires as if their success, which is was possible without mass exploitation of others, is the gold standard for existence.

And then every. Single. Day. On this stupid website you see the same posts: "no one cares about men's mental health," "there aren't enough mental health services," etc etc. Grown adults respected and honored by society who lack the most basic coping skills because they've never set a foot in therapy.

In a way it's the same exact vibe as the restaurants posting snarky "wahhh no one will work open-close for $2.30/hr everyone must be lazy and entitled" notes lately tbh. There's a necessary need for a skill at least half the population possesses but people think that should just come for free if not at the cost of major disrespect and that person's self sacrifice

(Yay, morning rants)

alphasquish · 2021-06-14T14:42:23+00:00

I think it’s because a lot of LVMs are nice guys. Their coworkers, friends, even other family members think they are terrific people. And maybe in some respects they are…but it’s completely different than who they are in their relationship. One of the downsides to this is when you inevitably lose your shit…at best you look histrionic and at worst he plays it off like you are the problem, which reinforces him being the good guy and never taking responsibility for his part in problems, be they societal or relationship-based.

LVMs bring toxicity whether they intend to or not, toxicity breeds stress and anxiety, and stress and anxiety breed unintended outbursts, anger, depression, and self-harm. Unfortunately, they don’t change. The rare ones that do, do it of their own accord and hold themselves accountable.

LeyMio · 2021-06-15T05:57:51+00:00

I always wonder what is going on with the mass production of useless male losers. Those men are made into complete garbage and their existence is nothing but waste of resource. The society has been spoiling men like crazy and setting the expectation extremely low. In the meanwhile, women are overwhelmingly oppressed and sacrificed in order to meet the LVM demands.

This world is such an unfair place.

Title	Society needs to stop enabling these LVM’s
Author	whitefox00
Upvotes	218
Comments	23
Date	June 13, 2021 8:32 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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