Ladies, this is a reminder to never trust a man who says his ex is just “ crazy “ without reasoning. This term 90% of the times is based on a woman’s reaction to a man’s action. Most women who are called “ crazy “ by men are just HV women who wouldn’t take their bs. Men aren’t allowed to hurt you then decide how you react to being hurt. This term is used to gaslight women into thinking they’re overreacting or being overly emotional for absolutely NO reason, which is VERY rarely the case. It’s used to invalidate our feelings and emotions. It’s used to try to pressure us into being the “ cool “ girlfriend who have no standards and just become a complete doormat. It’s used to break down our boundaries and self-worth. Majority of the times guys who use this term are manipulative little boys who don’t like to take responsibility for their actions. If a guy ever tells you his ex is “ crazy “ ask him the actions he did leading up to her reacting in the way she did, cause I guarantee you 90% of the times there’s a story behind it. Don’t become the woman who suffers in silence just to please a guy who couldn’t give 2 cares about her.

P.S - If a guy ever uses this term to describe a women he was previously in a relationship with, run for the hills, cause you’ll be the next “ crazy ex-girlfriend “