This ain’t no Build-A-Boy, ya know?

herbivorouscarnivore · 2021-12-10T20:55:53+00:00

There is something about paying a man’s child support that feels extra wrong. Maybe it’s because women have fought to find ways to support the family when men fall short? (Thank goodness this is a women-only group because I can already hear all the f*ckboys wanting to tell me about their friend’s brother’s nephew’s cousin’s neighbor’s dog walker’s sister’s friend’s brother who knew of a gold digger and that’s how she supported her kids because she refused to get a job. Sure, scrote 🙄)

kumquat_fds · 2021-12-10T20:54:25+00:00

Men don’t typically value women’s kindness or generosity. They LIKE it because it makes them feel good. But it doesn’t make them respect you one bit.

Being their “ride-or-die”, loving them unconditionally… end it. It gets you nowhere.

subgirlygirl · 2021-12-10T22:05:57+00:00

Thanks for the offer, but no. My project days ended when grad school did. I'll take a complete, whole person, thank you very much. No warranty required; if something is significantly wrong, it's getting junked.🚮

Vivid-Creampuff · 2021-12-10T21:09:57+00:00

Women are so behind already because patriarchy. Spend that money and time helping women, not men. Men are born at third base already in life. I have tried to barb the builder a man before and all it got me was ptsd and an std

Sunshine_Daisies2525 · 2021-12-10T21:27:20+00:00

Build A Betties 💀

DumpsterWitchy · 2021-12-11T08:46:18+00:00

If his mommy and daddy failed at "building" him, why should it be my responsibility to pick up their trash (son) and try to fix it? I mean, I wouldn't pick a turd out of a toilet and try to make food out of it.

Babybearstarlight · 2021-12-11T13:59:27+00:00

This is not loyalty. This is being his mommy. There’s a fine line between support and wiping his ass for him. Scrotes will go out of their way to put the mommy figures on a pedestal like “she was there when I had nothing” and turn around and cheat on her.

Never feel bad for leaving someone who’s a work in progress. They’ll pull out every line in the book, all along the lines of “you’re SUPPOSED to help me grow!”

And what? Leave you out in the sun for 3-4 hours and water you 5 times a day and feed you fertilizer? Ew. No thanks.

karaokekiller · 2021-12-11T14:08:06+00:00

Yep. Paid more than my share of things early in the relationship when he was a struggling student, and he certainly never made it up later on, I just kept having to outlay money.

Title	This ain’t no Build-A-Boy, ya know?
Author	Dumb_Velvet
Upvotes	350
Comments	10
Date	December 10, 2021 8:39 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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