Even the comments are clocking onto his weaponised incompetence

hodgehogs · 2022-03-21T01:15:14+00:00

He better be taking her on a Sephora shopping spree 👀

_cnz_ · 2022-03-20T23:06:22+00:00

I bet that the husbands stuff is fine and only the wife stuff is damaged

Junior-Lion7893 · 2022-03-21T01:38:35+00:00

They broke a Huda Beauty palette, Natasha Denona, and a Naked palette. 🤦🏻‍♀️ That’s over $100 worth of makeup.

He is not looking after the kids.

millennialpink2000 · 2022-03-20T21:53:49+00:00

He's punishing her for leaving him to care for his own children

bookworm1896 · 2022-03-21T06:30:13+00:00

There is no way in hell a toddler ruined not just one but three make up palettes while he took a shower. The damage in the picture will have taken some time. Besides how should the toddler be able to easily open the palettes?

mandiefavor · 2022-03-20T22:16:08+00:00

Not Naked Wild West!! Aughhhh!!

asocialsocialite · 2022-03-20T22:31:30+00:00

That's a Natasha Denona, and that's from the Tropic Palette. That palette, even the full one, was limited edition to begin with, and good luck finding it.

He's a piece of shit, and him AND the kids would be toast.

orangechickengeneral · 2022-03-20T23:14:52+00:00

This kind of behavior tells you several things about the man who engages in it:
1) He does not respect his intimate partner. He does not see her as an equal. I posted many moons ago about men announcing to other men they're about to engage in aggression or violence with them, because it's a sign of treating your adversary as your equal.

Generally, men don't do that to women because they don't see women as their equals, so they catch them by surprise and cause that much more damage as a result. The woman is blindsided and has no way of preparing for the violence or the aggression.

2) He is cowardly. He will not articulate his feelings about the conflict (I assume, he was pissed about having to watch the kids?) so he retaliates by stabbing her in the back with an act of passive aggression. He could have talked about his feelings, like adults do, you know. But no! He resorts to cowardly violence instead.

3) He can't be trusted. He is the type of guy who would sabotage you, lie to you, undermine you, and seriously hurt you, while having an alibi and a plausible excuse for it. Arguing with him about it would be a colossal waste of time and energy.

4) This is not a one-off act of misbehavior. It speaks of the deeper issue with is the man's loathing of and contempt for his intimate partner. Gottman Institute says contempt in a relationship is one of the "Four Horsemen" of impending breakup or divorce.

Overall, a man who does this, is bad news, and isn't worth the time to explain to him why what he did was wrong. He knows. And he will do it again and again.

VesperLynd- · 2022-03-20T21:55:24+00:00

If he hates her so much that he just sits and watches while the children destroy her stuff like that then it wouldn’t surprise me if he did that himself and blamed them. He hates her and wants her off his back but is smug enough to do this because he thinks she wouldn’t leave him or he doesn’t care. Let him pay for replacements and then kick him to the curb

Edit: I checked the post. Someone asked OP who they should beat up for her and OP said the children. While excusing the husband because he was „taking a shower“. Also did not answer if he would replace the stuff so that’s an obvious no. Make of this what you will…

Sweetheartsorrow · 2022-03-20T21:56:36+00:00

Oh he’d be single is this were me, them palettes are expensive and clearly he’s useless

whiskey_and_oreos · 2022-03-20T21:47:36+00:00

Have him replace it and then replace him.

azulalalala · 2022-03-21T01:27:41+00:00

Omg not a naked palette 😬 those palettes have mirrors attached, he is not even trying to feign incompetence just legit went for "I hate you". Also how would a child get their hands on a make up palette (kept in a makeup pouch) in the first place? The answer is obvious.

rainbowhelix · 2022-03-21T01:08:35+00:00

Interesting that it's her makeup too. The LVM husband is probably worried about her using it to "attract" another man.

ThrowRA_lantern · 2022-03-21T00:59:44+00:00

Hey kiddos, wanna play some music?! We can use dad’s xbox as a percussion instrument!!

moonseekerinflight · 2022-03-20T21:59:46+00:00

"That's what she gets for dumping the kids on me. Besides, shouldn't she have made sure they couldn't reach it? Everything is her responsibility, why can't she understand that???"

BBQCoolRanchQueen · 2022-03-21T04:31:34+00:00

Ah yes, another form of what I call "funishment". It's along the same lines of a woman having a "day off" for her birthday or a girls' night out and having the chores pile up. Gonna go out without me? I'll make sure the kids destroy your stuff.

jugularlemonade · 2022-03-20T21:43:22+00:00

He better pay for it

greeneyesrosylips · 2022-03-21T07:24:06+00:00

As a makeup enthusiast who follows that sub I was immediately disgusted when I saw that post. Why do people think this is funny or endearing? I'm just enraged on her behalf

ububTkuc · 2022-03-20T22:07:04+00:00

How much you wanna bet the hubs encouraged the kids go do this??

Puffpepinopickle · 2022-03-20T22:08:45+00:00

Uhh, he clearly was not watching the children. Probably too busy playing call of duty

3alabali · 2022-03-21T01:54:13+00:00

Kids would maybe use one pallet. He did this

Novemberinthechair · 2022-03-21T08:11:19+00:00

Omg. You know he encouraged it, saw it happen and did nothing, or did it himself and blamed it on the kids. He probably lost it because he had to "babysit."

Carneliancat · 2022-03-20T23:03:21+00:00

If a man did that to me, he would be buying me new makeup. A whole new makeup wardrobe, in fact. And then I would dump his useless ass.

CheetahEnergy · 2022-03-21T01:43:14+00:00

This broke me

Maingurl · 2022-03-21T02:56:12+00:00

Oh hell no!

kwallio · 2022-03-21T00:20:03+00:00

That stuff is expensive, wtf.

AphoticEnigma_ · 2022-03-21T09:14:41+00:00

Usually makeup is somewhere high up like a counter or a drawer

No way would toddlers be able to reach this

He handed it to them

KetoKittenAround · 2022-03-21T05:52:01+00:00

If it were me… he’d better sleep with one eye open because I am not only leaving him, I’m going to pay in kind.

I hope this woman is as petty as me

Davina33 · 2022-03-21T07:48:50+00:00

His x box or whatever would be taking an almighty, damaging tumble! I bet he did this and not the kids.

Colour_riot · 2022-03-21T13:54:31+00:00

also let's be realistic. if toddlers had really played with it, the plastic covers would be chipped and dented / half off and broken because they throw shit around.

so... 100% done by the adult male infant.

the-worst- · 2022-03-21T21:47:28+00:00

This is exactly what happens when a “gamer dad” is asked to watch the toddlers.

Kylie_Fan · 2022-03-21T08:50:17+00:00

Even if he buys her new palettes, it's still money coming out of their budget that could have been used on something else.

Also the waste of product is not good for the environment. It's just sad to see all that high end makeup end up like this.

Jaelismyhomegirl · 2022-03-21T11:09:59+00:00

This kind of shit teaches children not to respect their mothers, and men know it.

TululahJayne · 2022-03-21T14:00:53+00:00

Who cleaned up this mess? Who washed the children afterwards and scolded them? Who is buying the replacement makeup? Who is making the childproof drawers for the next makeup palettes?

I have a plan. Take husband's credit card and replace the makeup as well as you can, plus take yourself out to lunch and buy a new pair of shoes or whatever else. File for divorce, serve husband with papers and then kick him out.

I'm so sick of men getting away with things. She's in the comments blaming her kids. 🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️ She hasn't even responded to a husband comment yet.

I'm not even mad at her, I'm upset for all women kind. When will women see men for who they really are?

Astral_weaver · 2022-03-21T08:58:38+00:00

This is a hate crime.

Colour_riot · 2022-03-21T13:51:20+00:00

"who wants to decorate daddy's new car with keys?"

matte_personality · 2022-03-21T09:01:42+00:00

All expensive brands too! Bye!

warinmymind94 · 2022-03-21T19:55:27+00:00

That's all high end stuff, naked palette is over $50, the little Natasha one is around $25, and that one that's square looks like it might be a huda one which go for around $30. So his incompetence just cost her over $100 plus now having to clean up a mess.

I'm sure the scrote would flip if his $50 video game controller was wrecked by kids and his $50 gaming headset was wrecked in a similar manner.

There's no excuse to let thus happen other than he wasn't watching them or playing with them enough. Now he better have cleaned it ALL up and be taking her to sephora to let her pick out replacements he's paying for.

Thestral-glow6 · 2022-03-20T22:09:10+00:00

OP please black out the sub names on all these screen shots.

Accomplished-Bear193 · 2022-03-20T23:42:20+00:00

This cultural belief that a husband is basically another child you adopt when you get married has to fucking stop.

FluffandRainclouds · 2022-03-21T05:30:56+00:00

Wtf!! Words fail me.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2022-03-21T09:26:48+00:00

my take on this is the following. he hates her makeup and thinks she shouldn't have any but that she should look "beautiful" at all times.

if she were to not supervise the kids and they were to take a hammer to his PS5, then this would hit the news.

The8uLove2Hate_ · 2022-03-21T02:21:05+00:00

There’s no such thing as such a well-placed “accident.” Maybe he really views them as toys for adults (still sexist as hell), or maybe it’s as deliberate as other folks have said; you can drive it or milk it, but a cow is a cow.

VetOrRegret · 2022-03-21T03:36:21+00:00

Urgh, I physically recoiled at this image! Those are expensive palettes! I’m angry at the man for letting this happen, and these aren’t even mine. I hope he’s ready to pay for the replacements, but watch him disregard these items as “trivial” and tell her, “ you don’t need makeup anyway.”

yesmme · 2022-03-21T17:10:13+00:00

“Honey, I cleaned your x box for you! It also smells good from the new Mr. Clean I got!”

Ok_Builder_4134 · 2022-03-20T23:46:02+00:00

If it’d been his gaming consoles or expensive shoes that received this treatment he’d be all over it

thisisausernameee23 · 2022-03-21T02:53:47+00:00

Does he has a record collection by any chance? Tell the kids they're going to play Frisbee tomorrow.

Thunderbird_Freya · 2022-03-21T01:36:44+00:00

Men are such losers. That shows that they don’t mind you being damaged or have your property damaged because of kids. As long he’s ok.

Title	Even the comments are clocking onto his weaponised incompetence
Author	Dumb_Velvet
Upvotes	928
Comments	81
Date	March 20, 2022 9:36 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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