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[–]crapeescapeFDS Newbie287 points288 points289 points 5 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
Funny but doesn’t deter all men. 3 years ago I had a guy I was dating. First time having sex he took off the condom, held my arms down and said ‘I’m going to breed you’. Went back in and finished in me. I freaked out. Kicked him out, blocked him. Ran to the pharmacy for plan b. Then I had to go and get tested. Wow. Crazy...
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple186 points187 points188 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What a rapist piece of shit. I hope he gets what's coming to him someday.
I had someone who was supposed to be a casual FWB stealth me, knowing I wasn't on birth control. He pulled out but that's not reliable and at nearly 40 years old he probably knew that full well. He'd talked about how he wants to have kids so an "oops" baby probably wouldn't have been unwelcomed by him. 🤮
[–]crapeescapeFDS Newbie134 points135 points136 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
He said that he watched a lot of rape and breeder porn, and he thought that I would like it. So now porn is on my list of questions for potential dates. Like the list of requirements isn’t long enough already 🙄
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple109 points110 points111 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He should have his balls crushed in a vice and whoever carries out the task can feign innocence because they saw it in a porno and totally thought he'd like it.
But word of advice, be careful with asking questions. Most men will lie about stuff and they can base a fake façade off of the types of questions you ask, presenting themselves as your ideal HVM long enough to reel you in.
The Dumb Fox approach is pretty helpful. It's from a book that isn't strictly FDS though so it doesn't focus as much as it should on dropping a LVM immediately as soon as he's revealed himself as LV, but it does outline how to maintain a nonjudgmental air that'll lull a guy into revealing his true self. You don't want to spell things out for them or give them hints that'll allow them to construct a dossier on you that they can then misrepresent themselves based on.
[–]crapeescapeFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Very good advice. Thank you so much. X
[–]NurseBubbleGumFDS Apprentice37 points38 points39 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How scary! I'm sorry that happened to you.
[–]Lemon_bars_addictionFDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Literally rape! I wish you had reported him as well but I understand everyone deals differently with trauma
[–]moonartemis1989FDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I hate how women are potrayed as "crazy emotional and want babies" when its men who try to "breed " us
[–]LittleWinnFDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ok WHAT IS THIS FETISH, just this week I had a guy tell me he wants me to be his “breeding cuckqueen” what the heck is this?
[–]crapeescapeFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yea it’s all fun and games until it’s time to pay child support
[–]LittleWinnFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This crazy man WANTS me to live with him, raise babies with him, I do not get it.
[–]HumanAdhesiveness360FDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😞 I've heard stories like that before. It's so fucked up. I hope your OK.
[–][deleted] 133 points134 points135 points 5 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
But some of these dudes have an impregnation fetish so this is a terrible idea
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple95 points96 points97 points 5 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
And a lot of them are out here trying to baby trap, especially if you're a woman who has her shit together. My ex started reproductively coercing me 2-3 months into our relationship. He wanted to leech off of me indefinitely and a baby goes a long way towards facilitating that.
[–][deleted] 88 points89 points90 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
They also do this if they straight up want to see you fail. I remember hearing a story where this guy trapped this woman with a baby when she wanted to abort, he said he wanted to keep it.
So she said I'll have the baby but you're going to have full custody. I want no parts in raising this child. She said shed pay child support too. The man thought she was bluffing and began complaining about how hard it was being a single dad after she vanished lol. I'm just sad for the child in that situation
[–]t_s_d12FDS Newbie61 points62 points63 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I remember reading this, he posted wanting legal advice if he could force her to be a parent, even though she sign away rights AND was paying 125% child support
[–]CassieGreen85FDS Disciple58 points59 points60 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
This is why I hate to hear bullshit (I hear it mostly in the CF sub, since that's one of the ones I frequent the most) that "men in particular are forced to be fathers/get babytrapped" I just wanna literally kick them out of the conversation. Men have been babytrapping and raping women for EONS, yet these last couple of decades men can't stop bitching about how "horrible and unfair" it is that they don't get to have sex without consequences.
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I've seen the same shit over there! When women do baby trap it's usually some desperate PickMe who's been strung along as a forever girlfriend for 5+ years who's deluded herself into thinking it'll turn her LVM boyfriend into a family man.
This is literally the only way men are at a biological "disadvantage". It's not their body, it's not their choice. If they don't want to father any children they need to not stick their unfixed dick in women. I have zero sympathy for them tbh.
[–]CassieGreen85FDS Disciple21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes 100% with you, thank you! If they really don't wanna be fathers, then freeze some sperm and get fixed.
Literally all these scrotes want is to have sex with none of the consequences, meanwhile women have to deal with getting venereal diseases (which men are mostly carriers/asymptomatic, women are usually the ones who get the symptoms), paying and doing most of the BC work, deal with the consequences of abortions (which are NOT something easy to get, as many LVM believe), etc.
They keep on having sex with the bare minimum effort in birth control (condoms only when having sex, meanwhile women have to pay monthly for BC pills or any other BC, and take it daily), then when there's an "accident" (sex leads to pregnancies, who would've thought??) they start bitching and whining about how unfair it is that they don't get to choose to NOT have the kid.
Such selfish, irresponsible, psychopathic behavior.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed. Everything you said.
[–]moonartemis1989FDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
hey i want to read more up on the history of men baby trapping . can u drop some links pls <3
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[–]moonartemis1989FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Oh my god I didn't know this , I'm still a teenager so everything I've consumed from media it's shown as women making the poor man get baby trapped but I didn't realise it was the other way around until now .
[–]CassieGreen85FDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh yes, so what you see in "regular" social media is how the men are victims of baby trapping, how women get all custody of the children during divorces, right?
For the 2nd one (since I already mentioned the first), the reason why most women get more custody is 1) male judges have a bias that women (aka mothers) are "naturally" better at parenting and thus should take care of the child 2) the divorced men don't even request for custody. In fact most of those that do, do get more balanced custody terms of their kids!
You'll be surprised how much information is being subtly (and not so subtly) manipulated so we all cater to the male gaze and to males in general, while pitting women against each other.
[–]moonartemis1989FDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
while pitting women against each other.
i hate this
[–]janatztxcxxxFDS Newbie58 points59 points60 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Tell him you have AIDS. He will run for the hills. Lol
[–]kalina95FDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I was literally thinking that maybe I should have done this to a guy that tried sleeping with me. We nearly had sex, ofc with a condom on. But he wanted to have sex without a condom. He was also unaware of how contraceptive pills have side effects for the human body and that in the country I currently reside in, women cannot buy contraceptives without a prescription if they are unmarried, as the country has laws against sex before marriage.
My primary concern with most of these men is - yes it covers the baby part, but the STD part is significantly more important. Why be an idiot?
[–]moonartemis1989FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
hey , which country is this?
[–]kalina95FDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Kuwait
[–]moonartemis1989FDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i hate how every country has women opressed in some way
[–]ShannuchanFDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am childfree, and I can't even pretend to be excited about having a child, so I like this strategy a lot more. Lol
[–]matte_personalityFDS Newbie50 points51 points52 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
When I was 18 I dated a 22 year old guy. I was a virgin and he wasn’t. I was really cautious and insisted on using condoms and he said that from his experience he prefers not to. He compared it to eating a donut with wrapped on in terms of his pleasure and I was like?
I broke up with him before we did anything 🥰
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank god.
[–]MonicaLSolisFDS Disciple137 points138 points139 points 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
If a guy pressures you to have unprotected sex, he is basically saying that his sexual pleasure outweighs your life
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And it is scary how common it has become. The same guys that ask for condomless sex are the same ones who “aren’t ready for a relationship” and “don’t wanna catch feelings” but they are ready to use you a sex doll and for you to catch an STD or an unwanted pregnancy 🤷🏻♀️ And some women are ok with it
Honestly this “sex is the end all be all” craze has gotten out of control. It is like actually having feelings and wants not related to sex is thought of as weird and clingy while having sex and using other people for their bodies is normal 🤦🏻♀️
[–]monatsiyaFDS Newbie56 points57 points58 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
‘i-i didn’t even know you would say this! i’m so happy, i’m crying! i always knew that we would be together for eternity and pop out little crotch creatures, gosh!’
‘w-wait-‘
‘-and i just, like, this is such a big step for our relationship, you know? do you want to get married first or what? maybe we can-‘
“hold on just a min-“
“-have a summer wedding and have a baby shower in the spring!” her face turns deadpan. “are you an idiot?”
[–]MagnfiqueMaleficentFDS Disciple23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Like that scene in Wedding Crashers. “Jeremy!!!! We’re going to be SO happyyyy!”
[–]PinkOrchids2020Throwaway Account15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You need to leave not start freaking him out
Yes! Leave skidmarks!
[–]Sage_PlanterFDS Disciple32 points33 points34 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't forget to add how thrilled you are that he's ready for that next step with you!
[–]MagnfiqueMaleficentFDS Disciple44 points45 points46 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be sure to tell him you’ve already had your eye on 1.75 carat, colorless diamond solitaire set in a platinum band at Tiffany’s. Only 23k. You can go look at it right after he finishes RAwDOgGiNg you. 💍
[–]Waste-WinFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is hilarious but I have a very strict policy about this, no condom no sex.
[–]justforfdsFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A condom split during sex with an ex fiance who I lived with. I stopped in shock and said I'd need to get the morning after pill.
His next action, in the face of my terrified expression and stiff body was to say "now we can carry on without, as you're taking the pill tomorrow. I'm willing to take the risk!"
This is a guy it had happened with once a few years previously and at that time he ignored it compleyely and didn't ask if I was late or pregnant. I stopped using the pill with him because he wasn't worth the physical side effects. So the second time was between changing permanent non-hormonal birth control methods.
When he said that shit I thought to myself "what fucking risk?!"
I got out of bed and put my clothes on.
While I waited to see of I was pregnant, he made himself unavailable and went out drinking every night.
When I called him from hospital with extreme bleeding brought on by that pill, he decided to go on a night out drinking again.
Well, I never desired him again.
I know better now and have some damn boundaries.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is actually BRILLIANT.
[–]gothicctemptressFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂😂😂
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