Why are you a queen?

myousername · 2020-03-28T19:53:23+00:00

I get scrotes messaging me all the time demanding to know why I DARE think of myself as valuable. They insist that I explain to them what I have to offer a man.

I don't even bother answering because frankly it's a lose-lose conversation. They already think women are worthless, nothing I can say will change their mind.

If I talk about my successes like I bought my own home at the age of 27, I'm financially responsible and have no debt and plenty of savings, I have a bachelor's degree, I have a high paying and mentally rewarding career (unfortunately got laid off because of coronavirus), I have a garden that grows food that will help me survive the apocalypse, I am skilled in raising livestock for food, I know how to wrench on my own truck, I know basic woodworking and carpentry skills, I know how to fix things around the house, etc...

Or if I talk about my character, such as being hardworking, generous, empathetic, loving, etc... NONE of that matters to LVMs. They'll say stuff like "oh but men don't care about that!"

Even if you tell them what they want to hear like "I'm hot, I cook, and I fuck like a pornstar" then they'll turn it around on you like "I knew it! So you ADMIT that women are only good for looking pretty and sucking dick!! Muahaha I am so clever!!!"

At NO point will they ever give you what you want to hear which is probably something like "wow I guess I was wrong! Seems you really are a good person!" Of course not, in their mind that would be admitting defeat

Male validation is worthless. They don't want to give it to you anyways unless they are trying to manipulate you.

helena939392 · 2020-03-28T23:29:09+00:00

I'm pretty on the inside and outside
I have a degree in tech and a great job, also lots of savings
I have the best friends in the whole world
I'm a corporal too
I drive a motorbike
I always get shit done
Speak six languages
I'm enteraining and fun to be around

Ahhh this feels good. We're not allowed to love ourselves out loud much.

Shermaow · 2020-03-28T21:48:10+00:00

I’m in the healthcare industry and I am damn good at what I do (not patient care). I’m really good at befriending dogs and cats. 😂 I’m always down for road trip and car-karaoke therapy. I have eclectic taste in post-run beers 🍻

lilsplasha · 2020-03-28T22:20:12+00:00

I love this!! I love reading about how badass you all are on here.

I have a great sense of humor, I’m fun and comfortable in my own skin, I keep my hair, skin, makeup and nails looking on point, I’m always trying to improve myself, I put myself through school as a first generation college student, I’ve travelled the world, and I’m well read on many topics, I’m a loyal and loving person.

nymphaetamine · 2020-03-29T01:21:19+00:00

I have a good career that pays well and allows me to set up a good future for me and my son.
I'm a good friend- there for them when they need genuine help or just a shoulder, but I give it to them straight if they're causing their own problems too.
I take care of myself- hair done, nails done, skincare, etc.
I study psychology as a hobby and it adds to my life in many ways, a big one being that I can read people like a damn book and take NO shit anymore.
I'm smart- techy, witty, linguistic, mechanically-minded, avid reader, always wanting to learn more.
I am unapologetically myself- I don't mindlessly follow trends or believe everything I hear/read, I dress how I want, I dismiss others' opinions of what I "should" do or be, and if anyone doesn't like me they're free to shut up and go away.
I am raising my son to treat women right, and setting an example of what kind of woman to look for when he gets to dating/marrying age.
I forgave myself for my old ways and treat them as a learning experience. We all have to start somewhere, and being able to laugh & learn from your pickme past is key to growth.
I am perfectly happy on my own. Anyone who is in my life is there because I want them there, not because I can't live without them.
I am damn efficient at getting shit done. People at work comment on this a lot, "how are you always done so fast?!" Sit down and observe my flow, friends. lol.

This was a fun topic, it's always nice to remind yourself of why you're awesome :)

keithmorrisonsvoice · 2020-03-28T18:55:37+00:00

I like this!! I’ll play. 10 things that make me amazing. I’m smart, take care of my skin and body, put effort into my appearance, keep my apartment clean, have a few 000s in my savings and investment account, adventurous, creative, open minded, emotionally healthy and successful in my career.

Pipulka · 2020-03-28T18:34:46+00:00

Got my first hate message through this post, scrotes are so hilarious

placemat24 · 2020-03-29T07:39:00+00:00

I am a queen because:

I am self sufficient. I have lived alone and worked multiple jobs to pay my bills since 17.
I am intelligent. I obtained over $200k in scholarships and was #2 in my class of over 700.
I am a first generation college graduate. I lived in a poor area with wildly high rates of teenage pregnancy, gangs, drugs, and police brutality. I did not succumb to failure because the cards were stacked against me.
I am resilient. I dealt with all of the above while watching both of my parents lose their livelihoods and 100% of their income due to disability (they are okay financially now, I am happy to say).
I am health conscious. I have conquered mental illness, [oral] chemotherapy, exposure to an agent of bio-terrorism, and obesity (I lost 50 pounds in the last year and am now at a healthy weight!).
I save lives. I am essential laboratory personnel in a healthcare facility. I am especially proud of my career during this time of uncertainty.
I am an educator, an adjunct professor for a high level science course.
I am a trendsetter. I am the youngest person in both departments, but my thoughts hold equal weight.
I am well versed and competent at my jobs.
I am diligent in personal finance. I am debt-free, save for emergencies, and invest in my retirement.
I can maintain strong, long-lasting friendships.
I am creative. I am an excellent cook in the kitchen and a casual painter. People say I am a beautiful interior decorator.
I can make people laugh.
I am someone I can be proud of. My little cousin tells people I am the smartest doctor teacher scientist there ever was.

Pipulka · 2020-03-28T22:27:33+00:00

So glad this caught on! It makes me sad when women apologize for their succes. Flaunt it!

TheFullMountie · 2020-03-29T00:24:44+00:00

Love this! I’m a tall and amazonian woman and certified yoga teacher, bought my first house at 30, and just calculated my gpa for admission to a Masters in Psychology and have a 3.87/4.0 gpa in my undergrad. I have a great family - amazing, loving sisters, and my folks have been happily married my whole life - I’m also about to become an aunt (though technically I’m a boss fur-auntie right now!) :) Whole extended family is very supportive of one another. I have a good job that pays well but has excellent benefits (and I can work remotely at during this time). Also have great elderly neighbours who drink wine/smoke pot recreationally and are super chill and lovely. My house has an awesome orchard/garden/greenhouse with a view of the mountains, and I live in Canada so the air quality is great. My friends are kind, wonderful people, and we always encourage each other to be better. I have amazing eyes that change colour, with long eyelashes, good skin, and a healthy body. I’ve got no debt (except house), am fiscally smart, and am working on writing a book. I enjoy cooking/baking and have eaten lowcarb/ketogenically for over year now from which I’ve lost over 35 lbs and maintained it. I’m in my early 30s but no grey hairs, working on my fitness, taking online courses, and I’m trying to learn a dying European language to fluency to help preserve it!

I was feeling down with the whole social isolation thing and I struggle with a bit of anxiety and depression at times, so thank you, this is the first time I’ve ever really thought about how much I have to be truly grateful for! :)

finance_lady · 2020-03-29T00:57:34+00:00

Here are mine:

I am educated and have a B.S. and master's degree
I am career oriented and can live independently without marrying for the rest of my life, if I choose to
I have wonderful family to lean on
My dog is awesome and loving
I'm a homeowner while most men on Tinder are either mom's basement or studio apartment still when they are 40...eyeroll
I am financially responsible
Well-traveled
Well-rounded as far as hobbies and interests (arts, culture, music)
Actively working to lose weight and get healthier

Bitemebitch00 · 2020-03-29T06:20:18+00:00

Yesssss Queen. I’ll go. 1. I am very creative and determined 2. I just got my own studio apartment as my first place and I’m paying for my own rent and groceries (all my bills) 3. I’m responsible and have earned my bosses respect. Now I get full-time hours. I’m very competent. 4. I’ve kept a job for a year and a half. 5. I have stayed single for 5 months and am doing my very best to work on myself. 6. I got my Associates Degree at 16 and I love reading. I really like gaining knowledge. 7. I’m truthful, honest 8. I’m relational and can see people’s souls and who they really are 9. I’m beautiful :) 10. I’m brave for everything I’ve faced in life and will continue to face

Pipulka · 2020-03-29T19:22:56+00:00

Funny, I had a 105 likes, next thing only 99. This thread makes scrotes livid. Keep on downvoting losers.

hellau1234 · 2020-03-30T03:55:04+00:00

Okay let me list up 10 things haha We’re not loving us enough!

I’m smart and a problem solver
I know how to get shit done, now!
I’m drop dead gorgeous
Animals love me
I’m a loyal, trustworthy friend
I would do anything for my family
I try and be good
I’m athletic and healthy
I’m a great cook
I stay calm in any situation

vowelsareimportant · 2020-03-30T01:28:45+00:00

I have a great sense of humor.
I’m fashionable. I make bold fashion choices and I get complimented on what I’m wearing at least once a week.
I’m smart.
I’m caring and compassionate.
I’m a good mother.
I’m good at my job. I work in a high stress field that has a high turnover rate. I’ve managed to keep at it for years longer than most.
I’m responsible and dependable. I’m the one that my family and friends turn to when they need help because they know that if I can, I will.
I’m good with money. My only debt is my mortgage.

CatHeroine · 2020-04-02T01:59:44+00:00

i speak 5 languages fluently
i have an MA degree but I'm also creative and have my own business in arts
I'm debt free and have savings
i moved away from my parents at age 18, completely independent since 23 (wish it was earlier)
I'm a curious person and a fast learner, was always praised at my jobs, always got along with my colleagues
I'm tech savvy, can fix hardware /software related issues that most women can't, without ever studying it
you can chat with me just about anything, i can keep a conversation flowing about most topics on most levels, of course very few on an expert level but for general conversation it's sufficient
i constantly seek self improvement, try to learn from the mistakes of others, I can admit my shortcomings, failures and mistakes, i can apologise and mean it
I'm saving up for my own home which I want to rent out for the time being
i had a professional career which I have up for my ex but in the meantime also built up my own business which is doing really good but I'm about to get a full time job next to it so that I can save up quicker and make up for the time I wasted because of my ex, need it to give stability to my life and I'm not ashamed to admit it
I easily get to know and befriend people, I'm very social and fun at parties
i have long term friends who never left my side and helped me through tough time
I'm always there for my friends and I'm reliable when it comes to help or simply listening
people used to say I was weird and funny which I took it as a compliment as I was free and not crippled by the expectations of the society. I changed because of my ex i became a law abiding stay at home gf. I'm learning to get back to the real me
I used to bite my nails, now they're beautiful again

Title	Why are you a queen?
Author	Pipulka
Upvotes	120
Comments	38
Date	March 28, 2020 5:13 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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